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2009年8月23日 上午1點17分26秒[转]致天下做儿女的人,看完后我哭.....

请每一个孝顺的子女耐心的看下去!
结婚那天,妈问我:坐在角落里象两个要饭模样的人是谁?


我看过去的时候,有个老头正盯着我,旁边还有个老太太,发现我看着他们时赶忙低下头。我不认识他们但也不象要饭的,衣服是新的连折印都看得出来。妈说象要饭的是他们佝偻着身子,老太的身边倚了根拐杖的缘故。
妈说天池是孤儿,那边没亲戚来,如果不认识就轰他们走吧。现在要饭的坏着呢,喜欢等在酒店门口,见哪家办喜事就装作亲戚来吃黑酒。
我说不会,叫来天池问一下吧?天池慌里慌张把我的手捧花都掉地上了,最后吱吱唔唔地说是他们家堂叔和堂婶。我瞪了妈妈一眼:差点把亲戚赶走。
妈说天池你不是孤儿吗?哪来的亲戚呢? 天池怕妈,低头说是他家远房的亲戚,好长时间不来往了。但结婚是大事,家里一个亲戚没来心里觉着是个憾事,所以……
我靠着天池的肩埋怨他有亲戚来也不早说,应该把他们调一桌,既然是亲戚就不能坐在备用桌上。天池拦着说就让他们坐那吧,坐别桌他们吃着也不自在。
直到开席那桌上也就坐了堂叔和堂婶。敬谢席酒经过那桌,天池犹豫了一下拉着我从他们身边擦了过去。回头看到他们的头埋的很低,想了想我把天池给拽了回去:堂叔、堂婶,我们给你俩敬酒了!
两人抬起头有点不相信的盯着我。二老的头发都是花白的,看上去很老应该有七八十岁的样子,堂婶的眼睛很空洞,脸虽对着我但眼神闪忽不定。我拿手不确定的在她眼前晃了晃,没反应。原来堂婶是个瞎子。 堂、堂叔、堂婶,这是俺媳妇小洁,俺们现在给你们敬酒呢!天池在用乡音提醒他们。

哦、哦。堂叔歪歪斜斜地站了起来,左手扶着堂婶的肩右手颤微微地端起酒杯,手指背上都是黄黄的茧,厚厚的指夹逢里留着黑黑的泥。面朝黄土背朝天的日子让他们过早地累弯了腰。我惊讶地发现,堂叔的右腿是空的。堂婶是瞎子,堂叔是瘸子,怎样的一对夫妻啊?别站了,你们坐下吧。我走过去扶住他们。堂叔又摇晃着坐下了,无缘由的堂婶眼里忽然就叭嗒叭嗒直掉泪,看到堂叔无言地拍着她的背。本想劝他们两句,但天池拉着我离开了。
我跟天池说,等他们回家的时候给他们一点钱吧,太可怜了。两人都是残疾,这日子根本想不通怎么过。天池点点头没说话,紧紧拥着我。
第一年的除夕,天池说胃疼没吃下晚饭回房睡觉去了。我让妈妈熬点大米粥也跟着进了房。天池躺在床上,眼里还憋着泪。
我说天池不带这样的,第一年的除夕就不跟我们一块吃晚饭,还跑房里这样。好象我们家亏待你似的,一过节你就胃疼,哪有这样的事情?其实我知道你不是胃疼,说吧什么事?

天池闷了半天说对不起,他只是想起堂叔和堂婶还有他死去的爹娘。他怕在桌上忍不住,惹爸妈不高兴才推说胃疼。
我搂着他说:真是个傻孩子,想他们我们过完年看他们去就成了,再说我也想知道他俩是怎么过日子的。
天池说算了,那条山路特别难走。你会累着的,等以后路通了我们生了小孩再带你去那看他们吧。
我心里想说:等我们生小孩的时候他们还不一定在呢!但没敢讲出来,嘴上说给他们再寄些钱物吧!
第二年的中秋期间我正巧在外出差,中秋节那天又回不了家。我特别想天池和爸妈,我就跟天池煲电话粥。
我问天池想我想得睡不着怎么办?天池说就上网或者看电视,再不行就睡那睁着眼睛狠狠得想。
那晚,我们直到把手机聊得发烫没电为止。 躺在宾馆的床上,看着窗外圆圆的月亮,我怎么也睡不着。睁着眼睛流着泪想天池、想爸爸、想妈妈。想到天池估计也没睡着,说不定正在网上神游。翻身我也打开电脑,重新申请了一QQ号名叫“读你”想捉弄一下天池。查了一下,天池果然在,我主动加了他,他接受了。
我问他:这样一个万家团圆的好日子,你为什么还在网上闲逛呢? 他说:因为我老婆在外出差,想她睡不着觉所以就上网看看。 我挺满意这句话,接着又打出:老婆不在家,可以找个情人代替,比如说网上,聊以****一下。 半天他才敲出一行:如果你想找情人的话,对不起,我不是你找的人,再见。 对不起,我不是那个意思,你别生气。叭叭叭,我赶紧发过去。 过了一会他问我:你怎么也在网上闲逛呢? 我说:我在外打工,现在想爸爸和妈妈。刚刚和男朋友通完电话还是睡不着,就上网了。

我也想我爹和娘,只是,亲在外,子欲养而不能。 亲在外,子欲养而不能。怎么讲?我把这句话又重复敲了过去。我有点莫明其妙,天池怎么说这样的话? 你叫“读你”,我今天就让你读一次吧。有些事情放在心里很久会得病,拿出来晒晒会舒服些,反正你我也不认识,你就当作听一个故事吧!于是,我意外地知道了天池一直隐藏在内心的事情。
30年前,我爹快五十了还没娶亲,因为他腿瘸加上家里又穷没有姑娘愿意嫁他。后来,庄上来了个要饭的老头还搀着个瞎眼的女人。老头病得很重,爹看他们可怜就让他们在自家歇息。没想到一住下那老头就没起来过,后来老头的女儿就是那瞎眼的女人嫁给了我爹。 第二年生下了我。 我家的日子过得很清苦,可我从来没饿过一顿。爹和娘种不了田,没有收入就帮别人家剥玉米粒,一天剥下来十指全是血泡,第二天缠上布条再剥。为了我上学,家里养了三只鸡,两只鸡生蛋卖钱,留下一只生蛋我吃。娘说她在城里要饭时听说城里的娃上学都吃鸡蛋,咱家娃也吃,将来比城里的娃更聪明。但他们从来都不吃,有回我看见娘把蛋打进锅里后用嘴舔着蛋壳里剩下的蛋清,我搂着娘嚎啕大哭。说什么也不肯吃鸡蛋了,爹知道原委后气得要用棍子打娘。最后我妥协,前提就是我们三人一块吃。虽然他们同意了,但每次也就象征性的用牙齿碰一下。
庄上的人从来不叫我名字,都叫我是瘸瞎子家的。爹娘一听到有人这样叫我必定会跟那人拼命。娘看不见就会拿了砖块乱砸,嘴上还骂着:你们这些杀千刀的,我们瘸瞎,我娃好好的,就不许你们这样叫唤。将来你们一个都不如我娃。那年中考,瘸瞎子家的考了全县第一的喜讯让爹娘着实风光了一把。镇上替我们家出了所有的学杂费,送我上学的那天爹第一次出了山。上车的那会,我眼泪扑剌剌的直掉,爹一手拄着拐一手替我擦泪:进了城要好好学,以后就在城里找工作娶媳妇。别人问起你爹娘你就说你是孤儿,没爹娘,不然别人会看不起你。特别是娶不上媳妇,人家会嫌弃你。误了你娶媳妇,我都无脸去见老祖。
爹!我让爹别在说了,这是什么话,还没有用呢咋就不认爹娘呢?娘也说这是真话,要听。你不记得在学校里吗?只要说你是瘸瞎子家的,别人就会拿白眼挤兑你。刚开始连老师都不喜欢你。以后,你带了城里媳妇回家就说俺们是你的堂叔和堂婶。娘说完就在那抹泪。爹说,不要把媳妇带回家,一带回来你娘忍不住就会露馅的。然后往我怀里揣了十个熟 鸡蛋就拖着娘走了。
我的眼泪也扑剌剌地往下掉,残疾不是他们的错,那是老天对他们的不公。但他们却生了一个完美的天池给我。这个傻天池,这样的爹娘,无法再完美了。我很生气,他怎么就这么小看我呢?
那后来,你就告诉你媳妇他们是你堂叔和堂婶?我敲过去这句话。
本来我不信。媳妇找的是我又不是爹娘,为啥爹娘都不能认呢?不过我在外十年,爹娘一次都没去过我的学校。第一年工作,我想带他们进城玩玩,他们都不肯,说让人晓得我爹娘是残疾人会在我脸上抹黑,影响我娶媳妇。一辈子都在山里了不想出去了。娘还说她就是从城里来的,也没啥意思。后来,我谈了第一个女朋友,当我认为时机差不多的时候,就带她回了趟家。谁知到家后,她晚饭都没留下吃一顿就走了,我追出去她说,和这样的人过日子她一天都过不下去。还说我们家基因有问题,以后的小孩肯定也不会健康。我气得让她有多远滚多远。回到家,娘在那哭,爹也骂我。说我不听他们的话,非要断了咱家的香火不可。
后来,我遇上了第二个女朋友,就是现在我的老婆。我很爱她,做梦都怕失去她,她们家又很有钱,亲戚都是些上等人家,有了前车之鉴我很害怕只能不孝了。但是一到逢年过节我就想他们,心里堵得慌,难受。
那你从来就没有告诉过你老婆?也许她不计较这些呢?
我没说过,也不敢说。如果她同意了我想我岳母也不会同意的。我和她们住在一起,岳父在外是有脸面的人。如果爹娘来了不是在他们脸上抹黑吗?我也只能在出差学习的时候偷偷回去看上两眼。谢谢你听我说了这么多,现在我的心里舒服多了。
下了网,我依旧没有觉意。都说儿不嫌母丑,狗不嫌家贫,看看我们都做了什么?我理解天池的无奈,也了解他爹娘的苦衷。但他们不知道却将无辜的我陷入了无情无义的逆境之中。
天将放亮时,我敲开了部门经理的门,告诉他下面的事情请他全权处理,我有点非常重要的事情尽快要办,一切就拜托他了。然后简单收拾一下行李我就直奔火车站。还好,赶得上头班列车。
那条山路确实很难走。刚开始腿上还有点劲,后来脚上磨起了泡我就再也走不动了。正是中午时分,太阳又晒得厉害,我只有喘气的份。背来的水差不多快喝完了,我也不知道下面还有多少路程要走。脱下鞋子挤了水泡,那一会疼得我都哭出声来,真想打个电话让天池来接我回家,最后还是忍住了。从路边揪一把芦苇花垫在脚底,感觉脚上舒服多了。想到天池的爹娘此时还在家劳作着腿上忽的一下就来了劲,站起来继续往前走。
当老村长把我领到天池家门口的时候,那一片烧得红红的晚霞正照在他们家门口的老枣树上。枣树下坐着堂叔,哦不、是天池的爹,爹比结婚时看到的老多了,手上剥着玉米,拐杖安静地倚在他那条残缺的腿上。娘跪在地上准备收晒好的玉米,手正一把一把地往里撸。这,宛如一幅画,而画中便是这世上最完美的爹娘。
我一步一步地往他们跟前走着,爹看到了我,手中的玉米掉在了地上,嘴巴张得老大,吃惊地问:你、你咋过来了?
娘在一旁摸索着问:他爹,谁来啦? 天、天池家的。 啊!在、在哪?娘惊慌失措地找着我的方向。 我弯腰放下行李,然后一把抓着她的手,对着他们,带着深深地痛、重重地跪了下去:爹!娘!我来接你们回家了! 爹干咳了两下,泪无声地从爬满皱纹的脸上流出。 俺就说,俺的娃没白养阿!娘把双手在自个身上来回的搓,然后把抱住我,一行行的泪水从她空洞的眼里热热地流进我的脖子里。
我带爹娘走的时候村里是放了鞭炮的。我又为爹娘风光了一次。 当天池打开门,看到一左一右站在我身边的爹和娘时吃惊不小,怔怔地愣在那,一语未发。
我说:天池,我是读你的人。我把咱爹娘接回来了。这么完美的爹娘,你怎么舍得把他们丢在山里?
谢谢!
天池泣不成声,紧紧的抱住我,像他娘一样把一行泪流进我的脖子里。

看了感动的,所有爱自己的父母的,所有孝顺的子女,必须转载此文章(让所有的一起来爱自己的父母,善待父母)

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2009年11月11日 9:33hi

munhoo
Mun_Hoo 34, 吉隆坡, 馬來西亞
how are you?

2009年4月12日 7:9hi

khanhhoa
hoa 17, Ho Chi Minh City, 越南
Thank you very much about your informations!
Are you a tour guide?
Your English is really verry well !!!!
I was known roughly about your country. But through your article, I have known China more than. China is really wonderfull!!!
Vietnam is verry wonderfull,too. If you come here, you will like it verry much.


2009年2月2日 1:23你好啊

taowhsvc
taotao 26, 蘇州, 江蘇, 中國
新年好啊

2009年2月2日 1:28Re: 你好啊

yinfang19
fang 24, 濟寧, 山東, 中國
the same to you.

很高兴认识你,

江南乌镇可一直是我想去的地方,

你们生活在美丽的江南真让我羡慕呀!

2009年3月15日 8:25Re: Re: 你好啊

taowhsvc
taotao 26, 蘇州, 江蘇, 中國
好长时间没有来上网了!
有时间可以过来旅游!
其实我感觉还是北方好啊

2009年2月1日 12:46nop

marcusay
Mark 27, 北京, 北京, 中國
happy chinese new year

2009年2月2日 0:0Re: nop

yinfang19
fang 24, 濟寧, 山東, 中國
thank you! the same to you.

welcome to china.

nice to recognize you.

2009年1月28日 2:47hapi cny

hongjack
jack 30, 吉隆坡, 馬來西亞
欢迎你来我的msn jack6025@ hotmail.com 和 QQ 986963829 和 hongjack277 skype , n if u want add me in u QQ then dun forget write down u chinese name ok

2009年1月29日 9:54Re: hapi cny

yinfang19
fang 24, 濟寧, 山東, 中國
I have added you in my QQ.I'm glad to recognize you.can you speak chinese?

2009年1月30日 12:47HAPPY NEW YEAR!

khanhhoa
hoa 17, Ho Chi Minh City, 越南
Hi
I am verry happy when I see you.
I can't speak chinese.
can you speak vietnamese?
I am not good English.
I like your country and I want to go to there.

2009年1月30日 23:43Re: HAPPY NEW YEAR!

yinfang19
fang 24, 濟寧, 山東, 中國
nice to meet you!

sorry,i can't speak vietnamese.

but we can communicate in English,my English is also not very well.we can improve oral English in "zorpia.cn".

welcome to China!

2009年2月1日 5:27hello

khanhhoa
hoa 17, Ho Chi Minh City, 越南
hello
How are you?
Do you go to Vietnam?
Can you say some special information about China for me?
How is your Lunar New year?
See you again!

2009年2月3日 7:1Re: hello

yinfang19
fang 24, 濟寧, 山東, 中國

I hadn't went to Vietnam,but my uncle have went to your country.
it's so many about china ,I don't kown what you want to kown abuout china,so i search for some Brief Introduction to china and New year.

1.Brief Introduction to China

Location The People Republic of China is situated in eastern Asia on the western shore of the Pacific Ocean, with an area of 9.6 million square kilometers. China's continental coastline extends for about 18,000 kilometers, and its vast sea surface is studded with more than 5,000 islands, of which Taiwan and Hainan are the largest.

Land Formation and Rivers China's land drops off in escarpments eastward to the ocean, letting in humid air current and leading many rivers eastward. Among the rivers totaling 220,000 kilometers in length in China, the Changjiang (Yangtze) and the Huanghe (Yellow) are world known.

China has beautiful scenery, with mountains and ranges, highlands, plains, basins, and hills. The highlands and hill regions account for 65 percent of the country's total land mass, and there are more than 2,000 lakes. The highest mountain peak is Qomolangma (Everest), the highest in the world, 8,848 meters above sea level; the lowest point is the Turpan Basin, 154 meters below sea level.

Climate

China is characterized by a continental climate. The latitude spans nearly 50 degrees. The greater part of the Chinese territory is situated in the Temperate Zone, its southern part in the tropical and subtropical zones, and its northern part near the Frigid Zone. Temperatures differ therefore rather strikingly across the country. The northern part of Heilongjiang Province has long winters but no summers; while the Hainan Island has long summers but no winters. The Huaihe River valley is marked by distinctive seasonal changes, but it is spring all year round in the south of the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau. In the northwest hinterland, the temperature changes dramatically. China high tundra zone is situated in the Qinghai-Tibet, where the temperature is low in all four seasons. Some desert areas are dry all year round.

Resources

China abounds in natural resources. It leads the world in many proven mineral deposits; No country in the world boasts more wildlife than China, many of which are native to China, such as giant panda, snub-nosed golden monkey, and Chinese alligator; China's dawn redwood and Cathaya argyrophylla are known as the living fossils of ancient plants.

To protect the nation's native animals and plants, especially the endangered species, China has established more than 700 nature reserves. History China, with a recorded history of 5,000 years, is one of the world's earliest civilizations.

In the 21st century B.C., China entered slave society with the founding of the Xia Dynasty, thereby writing a finale to long years of primitive society. The Xia was followed by the Shang and Western Zhou Dynasty, Which encompassed the Spring and Autumn and Warring States periods.

In 221 B.C., Qin Shihuang established China's first centralized autocracy, the Qin Dynasty, thereby ushering Chinese history into feudal-ism, which endured in a succession of dynasties, such as the Han, Tang, Song, Yuan, Ming, and Qing, until the Opium War of 1840.

The economy and science and technology were relatively well developed in ancient China. During the Shang Dynasty some 3,000 years ago, the Chinese had mastered the art of bronze metallurgy, and invented iron implements; Many distinguished thinkers, scientists, artists and writers came into being. The contributions to world civilization of ancient China's four inventions: papermaking, printing, powder, and the compass, as well as remarkable achievements in mathematics, medical science, astronomy, agriculture, and architecture, are universally recognized.

The Bourgeois Democratic Revolution of 1991 led by Sun Yat-sen toppled the rule of the Qing Dynasty, put an end to more than 2.000 years of feudal monarchical system and culminated in the establishment of the provisional government of the Republic of China.

The People's Republic of China was founded on October 1,1949. Today, China is implementing reform and opening-up policies, and has established socialist market economy, thereby charting the course for socialist modernization with Chinese characteristics. Population China, as the word's most populous country, has a population exceeding 1.2 billion, which makes up 22 percent of the world total. To bring population growth under control, the country has followed a family planning policy since the 1970s.

The minority people of China

Ethnic Groups China is a multiracial country with 56 ethnic groups, including Achang, Bai, Bonan, Blang, Bouyei, Korean, Daur, Dai, De'ang, Dongxiang, Derung, Oroqen, Russian, Ewenki, Gaoshan, Gelao, Hani, Kazak, Han, Hezhen, Hui, Jino, Gin, ingpo, Kirgiz, Lahu, Li, Lisu, Lhoba, Manchu, Maonan, Mongolian, Monba, Miao, Mulam, Naxi, Nu, Primi, Qiang, Salar, She, Sui, Tajik, Tatar, Tu, Tujia, Va, Uygur, Uzbek, Xibe, Yi, Yuigur, Yao, Tibetan, and Zhuang. The Han people account for 92 percent of the population. No matter how big or small the population is, all peoples share equal rights.

Religion China is a multi-religious country. Taoism, Buddhism, lslamism, Protestantism and Catholicism have all developed quite a following in this country. Freedom of belief is a government policy, and normal religious activities are protected by the constitution.

Language and Character Chinese is commonly used in modern China. It is one of the five working languages designated by the United Nations. The majority of the 55 ethnic groups have their own languages. As a written language, Chinese has been used for 6,000 years.

Family Names Chinese family names came into being some 5,000 years ago. There are more than 5,000 family names, of which 200 or 300 are popular. The order of Chinese names if family name first. For instance, the family name of a person called Zhang Side is Zhang. Administrative Units China is divided into 23 provinces, five autonomous regions, four municipalities under the direct jurisdiction of the Central Government, and one special administrative region. The 23 provinces are Hebei, Shaanxi, Liaoning, Jilin, Heilongjiang, Shaanxi,Guangdong, Sichuan, Guizhou, Yunnan, and Hainan; The five autonomous regions are Inner Mongolia, Ningxia, Xinjiang, Guangxi, and Tibet; The four municipalities are Beijing, Shanghai, Tianjin, and Chongqing; Hong Kong is the special administrative region.

The Capital

Beijing is the capital of the People's Republic of China. It is not only the nation's political centre, but also its cultural, scientific and educational heart and a key transportation hub. Beijing has served as a capital for more than 800 years. The city had many places of historic interest and scenic beauty, including the imperial Palace (also known as the Forbidden City), the largest and best-preserved ancient architectural complex in the world; the Temple of Heaven, where Ming and Qing emperors performed solemn rituals for bountiful harvests; the Summer Palace, the emperors' magnificent garden retreat; the Ming tombs, the stately and majestic mausoleums of 13 Ming Dynasty emperors; and the world-renowned and genuinely inspiring Badaling section of the Great Wall. Large-scale construction since the founding of the People's Republic of China in 1949 has brought great changes to Beijing. Today's Beijing still retains the alluring fascination of an ancient capital, but has added a small forest of skyscrapers and a complete range of municipal facilities, transforming itself into an attractively modern metropolis redolent of history.

The National Flag, National Emblem and National Anthem
The national flag of the People's Republic of China is red in color, rectangular in shape, with five stars. The proportion between the length and height of the flag is three to two. The five five-pointed yellow stars are located in the upper left corner. One of them, which is bigger, appears on the left, while the other four hem it in on the right.

The red color of the flag symbolizes revolution; the stars take on the yellow color in order to bring out their brightness on the red ground. The larger star represents the CPC, while the four smaller ones, the Chinese people. The relationship between the stars means the great unity of the Chinese people under
the leadership of the CPC.

The national emblem of the People's Republic of China is Tiananmen in the center illuminated by five stars and encircled by ears of grain and a cogwheel. The ears of grain, stars, Tiananmen and cogwheel are painted golden, and the inner part of the circle and hanging ribbons are painted red because these two colors are traditional Chinese colors representing auspiciousness and happiness. Tiananmen symbolizes the unyielding national spirit of the Chinese people in their fight against imperialism and feudalism; the ears of grain and cogwheel represent the working class and the peasantry; and the five stars stand for the
great unity of the Chinese people under the leadership of the CPC. The national anthem was created in 1935, the lyrics by Tian Han, a famous poet, and the music by Nie Er, a famous composer. The lyrics are as follows:
Arise, ye who refuse to be slaves;
With our very flesh and blood
Let us build our new Great Wall!
The peoples of China are in the most critical time,
Everybody must roar his defiance.
Arise! Arise! Arise!
Millions of hearts with one mind,
Brave the enemy's gunfire,
March on!
Brave the enemy's gunfire,
March on! March on! March on, on!

This song, originally named March of the Volunteers, is the theme song of the film, Young Heroes and Heroines in Stormy Years. The film describes the people who went to the front to fight against the invaders in the 1930s when Japan invaded northeast China and the fate of the Chinese nation was hanging in the balance.

March of the Volunteers, inspiring and forceful, expresses the determination of the Chinese people to sacrifice themselves for national liberation, and their fine tradition of bravery, firmness and unity in their fight against aggression. It was for this reason that the CPPCC on September 27, 1949 decided to adopt the song as the national anthem of the People's Republic of China, and the National People's Congress on December 4, 1982 officially decided to adopt the song as the national anthem of the People's Republic of China.



2.about :Lunar New year

New Year season lasts for fifteen days. The first week is the most important and most often celebrated with visits to friends and family as well as greetings of good luck. The celebrations end on the important and colourful Lantern Festival on the evening of the 15th day of the month. However, Chinese believe that on the third day (年初三) of the Chinese New Year it is not appropriate to visit family and friends, and call the day "chec hao" (赤口), meaning "easy to get into arguments".

The date of the Chinese New Year is determined by the Chinese calendar, a lunisolar calendar. The same calendar is used in countries that have adopted the Confucian and Buddhism tradition and in many cultures influenced by the Chinese, notably the Koreans, the Japanese, the Tibetan, the Vietnamese and the pagan Bulgars. Chinese New Year starts on the first day of the new year containing a new moon (some sources even include New Year's Eve) and ends on the Lantern Festival fourteen days later. This occurs around the time of the full moon as each lunation is about 29.53 days in duration. In the Gregorian calendar, the Chinese New Year falls on different dates each year, on a date between January 21 and February 20. In traditional Chinese Culture, Lichun is a solar term marking the start of spring, which usually falls on either February 4 or 5.


Days before the new year
On the days before the New Year celebration, Chinese families give their home a thorough cleaning. It is believed the cleaning sweeps away bad luck and makes their homes ready for good luck to arrive. All brooms and dust pans are put away on New Year's Eve so that good luck cannot be swept away. Some people give their homes, doors and windowpanes a new coat of red paint. Homes are decorated with paper cutouts of Chinese auspicious phrases and couplets (short phrases) that speak of "happiness," "wealth," "longevity."


Reunion dinner
A reunion dinner is held on New Year's Eve where members of the family, near and far, get together for celebration. The New Year's Eve dinner is very large and traditionally includes chicken. Fish (鱼, yú) is included, but not eaten up completely (and the remainder is stored overnight), as the Chinese phrase 年年有余 (nián nián yǒu yú), which means "may there be surpluses every year", sounds the same as "may there be fish every year", since "yú" is also the pronunciation for 余 ("leftover" or "surplus"). A type of black hair-like algae, pronounced "fat choy" in Cantonese, is also featured in many dishes since its name sounds similar to "prosperity". Hakka will serve kiu nyuk (扣肉) and ngiong tiu fu. Because certain things and/or food sound alike to certain Chinese well-wishes, the belief is that having one will lead to the other.


An illustration of what a Chinese Ancient Gold Nugget might look like.Most Northerners serve dumplings as the main dish in this festive season, although most Chinese around the world would do the same because it is believed that dumplings (饺子, jiǎo zi) are wrapped in the semblance of Chinese gold nuggets (illustrated) used in ancient China. This gold nugget is called 金元宝 (jin yuán bǎo). However, mandarin oranges are the most popular and most abundant fruit during Chinese New Year amongst Chinese simply because of, inter alia, how the name of the fruit is phonetically similar to gold -- jin ju (金橘子) or kam (金) in Cantonese.

Clothing
Red clothing is worn throughout the Chinese New Year, as red will scare away evil spirits and bad fortune. Also, people typically wear new clothes from head to toe to symbolize starting anew in the new year.


Money Given to Children
On the night of Chuxi, or the night before the first day of new years, parents or grandparents usually put "yā suì qián" (压岁钱) or "end of year money" under children's pillows. The most common story of the origin of this tradition is below:

There once was a monster called Sui(祟) that would come on the night of Chuxi and touch the forehead of sleeping children. Once touched, normal children turned insane and smart children were then mentally retarded. To avoid this, parents usually stayed up the whole to watch out for Sui (守祟, or 守岁). One couple loved their bright son very much, and decided one year to keep the son awake by having him playing with coins wrapped in red paper. However, both the parents and the boy eventually fell asleep, with the paper wrapped coins fallen beside the boy's pillow. At night, Sui came in looking for the boy. The parents woke up, but it was too late for them to stop Sui. As Sui got close to the boy, a light flashed from the paper wrapped coins, scarying Sui away.

The next day, the story was known through out the village, and people believed that having coins wrapped in red paper would keep Sui away on Chuxi. Therefore it became a tradition to put money by the pillows of children on the night of Chuxi, and the money is then called Ya Sui Qian 压祟钱, or Sui Suppressing Money. And since Sui(祟) sounds similar to the word 岁 which means year, it is then called 压岁钱, for people believed this money would keep their children safe for the rest of the year.

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