sospicasso的主頁 http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso Tue, 15 Dec 2009 06:43 EST Tue, 15 Dec 2009 06:43 EST Zorpia.com share http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1896841 <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">dont make promise when you are in joy</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">dont reply when you are sad</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">dont take decision when you are angry</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">think twice , act wise</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">別在喜悅時許下承諾</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">別在憂傷時做出回答</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">別在憤怒時下決定</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#02e100" size="4">三思而後行，做出睿智的行為</font></span></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1896841 Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:48 EST share http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1896585 <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">We make them cry who care for us</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">We cry for those who never care for us</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">And we care for those who will never cry for us</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">This is the truth of life , its strange but true</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">Once you realize this , its never too late to change</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">我們總讓在乎我們的人為自己哭泣</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">並總為那些永遠不會在乎我們的人哭泣</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">且我們在意那些永遠不會為我們哭泣的人</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">這是存在於生命中的事實，奇怪但卻真實</font></span></p> <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 20pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體"><font color="#f0f00f" size="4">一旦你瞭解了，改變永遠不會太遲</font></span></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1896585 Sun, 12 Apr 2009 22:54 EST share http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1891775 <p><font color="#f0a000" size="4">一隻狗或許沒有 名車 別墅 名牌衣服 那麼值錢有用<br />a dog has no use for fancy cars or big homes or designer clothes<br />給他一隻泡過水的樹枝 他就已經很滿足了<br />a waterlogged stick will do just fine<br />一隻狗不論你是 貧窮還是富有 聰明還是愚笨 機智還是笨拙<br />a dog doesn't care if you're rich or poor, clever or dull , smart or dumb<br />你用你的真心去愛他 他也會報于你以真情<br />give 'em your heart and he'll give you his<br />茫茫人海 有幾個人能做到那樣 <br />how many people can you say that about ?<br />大千世界 有幾個人讓你覺得珍貴 純真 特別 ?<br />how many people can make you feel rare and pure and special ?<br />有幾個人會讓你覺得生活如此的 無與倫比 ?<br />how many people can make you feel ... extraordinary ?</font></p> <p><font color="#f0a000" size="4">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></p> <p><font color="#f0a000" size="4">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;--Marley &amp; Me--</font><br /></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1891775 Thu, 26 Mar 2009 10:50 EST share http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1885889 &nbsp;&nbsp;<font color="#e10e0e">&nbsp;&nbsp; </font><font color="#e10e0e" size="4">There is a cliff by the sea. There lived a poet. He faced the sea to write poets on the cliff, but his drafts were blown into the sea. There lived a princess. She stood on the cliff to wait her lover finally she became a stone.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; There is a cliff in our mind. It is a place for us to wait for hope. Everyone is a waiter to wait for chances. Sometimes we may wait for a long time, but chances never come. We must believe chances always come as if a little duck can become a beautiful swan. More time we wait for, More greatly chances are bred.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;There is a cliff in our mind. It is the border of sadness and the limit of happiness. If we can stop, all things will turn better. If we rush out, we will crush utterly. We must realize when to stop and when to start. A man who can control himself can master his fate.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; There is a cliff in the world. All of us are standing on it. Peace makes the cliff become a continent. Wars also can make it form a deep and dark sea. Dying sadly in the sea or living beautifully on the ground is decided by us. The fog of wars hasn’t disappeared. We should always keep sane.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Cliff is steps which the sea gives us. From the cliff, we can jump into the sea and also climb up from the sea step by step.</font> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1885889 Thu, 05 Mar 2009 17:31 EST 分享 http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1838940 <font color="#cc69ff" size="4">聊天 是增進感情 <br />約會 是多一點共同的回憶 <br />吵架 是多認識對方....並且學會和好<br />親親愛愛 是享受甜蜜的氣息 <br />麻痺 是習慣的代名詞....突然少了會很奇怪的 <br />承諾 是證明這段感情要經得起考驗.. <br />努力 是代表妳真的很在乎 <br />感動 是因為被愛....一點一滴滑過心坎裡. <br />付出 是因為愛不知怎麼給....&nbsp; 不能不求回報..但也不苛求。 <br />真心 是因為真愛不容易來臨,&nbsp; 一但來,就該真誠地去握。<br />痛苦 是絕對在乎的表現...&nbsp; 沒有是很不尋常...有了又很苦。 <br />自私 ...難免嘛 ~ 不然怎麼叫「最愛」~~！ <br />冷淡 是因為正在沉澱....&nbsp; 可是不要沉過了頭嘍！ <br />珍惜 ...是因為怕失去....&nbsp; 所以呵護著..視之為奇遇！ <br />思念 是因為心裡常常有著妳....&nbsp; 這就是愛的魔力！ <br />掛心 是因為很愛很愛著....&nbsp; 心跟著心愛的人跑！<br />溫柔 是要讓愛....表達的甜美....永難忘懷！<br />三八 是愛情裡的小孩子氣的表現....很甜喔～！<br />撒嬌 是想要多一點呵護及在乎 ~~<br />打情罵俏 讓生活過的甜蜜又有趣！<br />重視 是絕對的愛情保障....&nbsp; 沒有重視就沒有愛情！<br />在乎 是為了要愛妳...&nbsp; 心有所屬～！<br />差別待遇 是要讓妳知道妳最重要.<br />信任 是感情維持最重要的....&nbsp; 要一起努力做唷～！ <br />多來往 是為了讓感情更穩定....&nbsp; 也可以避免不必要的距離！ <br />分享 是要讓對方多了解彼此....&nbsp; 有助於維持感情喔～！</font> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1838940 Mon, 22 Sep 2008 16:20 EST share :USD 20 Worth of Time http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1784938 <font size="4"><font color="#ff4c4c"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 15px">再次看到這篇文章，還是非常的喜歡，我把它分享給大家，願你們能多花一點時間來陪伴那些在乎你，關心你的人。<br /><br />價值$20美金的時間<br />USD 20 Worth of Time<br /><br />一位爸爸下班回家很晚了，很累並有點煩，發現他五歲的兒子靠在門旁等他。<br />A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.<br /><br />「爸，我可以問你一個問題嗎 ?」<br />“Daddy, may I ask you a question?”<br /><br />「當然可以，什麼問題?」父親回答<br />“Yes sure, what is it?” replied the man<br /><br />「爸，你一小時可以賺多少錢?」<br />“Daddy, how much do you make an hour?”<br /><br />「這與你無關，你為什麼問這個問題?」父親生氣的說著<br />“that’s none of your business, why do you ask such a thing?” the man said angrily.<br /><br />「我只是想知道，請告訴我，你一小時賺多少錢?」小孩哀求著<br />“I just want to know, please tell me, how much do you make an hour?” pleaded the little boy.<br /><br />「假如你一定要知道的話，我一小時賺20塊美金」<br />“if you must know, I make $20 an hour”<br /><br />「喔！」小孩低著頭這樣回答。小孩跟著說︰<br />“Oh,” the little boy replied, with his head down, looking up, he said,<br /><br />「爸，可以借我10塊美金嗎?」<br />“dad, may I please borrow $10?”<br /><br />父親發怒了<br />「如果你問這問題只是要借錢去買毫無意義的玩具或東西的話，給我回到你的房間並上床好好想想為什麼你會那麼自私。」<br />「我每天長時間辛苦工作著，沒時間和你玩小孩子的遊戲」<br />The father was furious,<br />“if the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a sill toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed, think about why you are being so selfish.”<br />“I work long hard hours everyday and don’t have time for such this childish behavior.”<br /><br />小孩安靜地回自己房並關上門<br />The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.<br /><br />這位父親坐下來還對小孩的問題生氣<br />The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy’s questions.<br /><br />他怎麼敢只為了錢而問這種問題 ?<br />How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?<br /><br />約一小時後，他平靜下來了，開始想著他可能對孩子太兇了<br />After about an hour or so, the had calmed down, and started to think hey may have been a little hard on his son.<br /><br />或許他應該用那10塊錢美金買小孩真正想要的，他不常常要錢用<br />Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $10 and he really didn’t ask for money very often.<br /><br />父親走到小孩的房門並打開門<br />The man went to the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door.<br /><br />「你睡了嗎孩子?」他問著<br />“are you asleep, son?” he asked.<br /><br />「爸，還沒睡，我還醒著」小孩回答著<br />“no daddy, I’m awake” replied the boy.<br /><br />「我想過了，我剛剛可能對你太兇了」父親說著<br />“I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier,” said the man.<br /><br />「我將今天的悶氣都爆發出來了。這是你要的10塊錢美金」<br />“It’s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here’s the $10 you asked for.”<br /><br />小孩笑著坐直了起來，「爸，謝謝你」小孩叫著<br />The little boy sat straight up, smiling. “Oh, thank you daddy!” he yelled.<br /><br />接著小孩從枕頭下拿出一些被弄皺了的鈔票<br />Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.<br /><br />這父親看到小孩已經有錢了，快要再次發脾氣<br />The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.<br /><br />這小孩慢慢地算著錢，接著看著他的爸爸<br />The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father.<br /><br />「為什麼你已經有錢了還需要更多?」父親生氣的說著<br />“Why do you want more money if you already have some?” the father grumble.<br /><br />「因為我之前不夠，但我現在足夠了」小孩回答<br />“because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,” the little boy replied.<br /><br />「爸，我現在20塊錢美金了，我可以向你買一個小時的時間嗎? 明天請早一點回家，我想和你一起吃晚餐。」<br />“daddy, I have $20 now, can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow, I would like to have dinner with you.”<br /><br />這個故事與你所喜歡的人分享，但更重要的，與你所愛的人分享這價值20塊錢美金的時間。<br />Share this story with someone you like…..but even better, share $20 worth of time with someone you love.<br /><br />這只是提醒辛苦工作的各位<br />Its just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life.<br /><br />我們應該花一點時間來陪那些在乎我們，關心我們的人而不要讓時間從手指間溜走……<br />We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.</span> <br /></font></font> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1784938 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 20:21 EST feeling... http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1784937 <p><font color="#e1a328" size="4">回顧既往，是一個很好的方式。</font></p> <p><font color="#e1a328"><font size="4">誰沒有過去？疼惜往事，也疼惜自己，以及身邊的人！生命將更寬容。</font> </font></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1784937 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 20:15 EST Joyeux Noel ~~ Merry Christmas http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1759311 <p><font color="#ffff1f" size="5">sometime friends are separated by priorities , by distance , by differences &amp; pride .. </font></p> <p><font color="#ffff1f"><font size="5">but no matter how far &amp; different we are , i'll always be the friend u'v known from the very start ....</font> </font></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1759311 Mon, 24 Dec 2007 14:41 EST 無奈 http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1735654 <p><font size="4"><font color="#0ed20d">你若不想做，會找到一個<font face="新細明體">藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法</font></font></font></p> <p><font color="#0ed20d" size="4">無奈..有人說的對</font></p> <p><span lang="en-us"><font size="4"><font color="#0ed20d"><font face="新細明體">一些事沒人做！一些人沒事做沒事的人盯著做事的人！議論做事的人做的事使做</font><font face="新細明體">事的人做不成事做不好事</font><font face="新細明體">於是，老闆誇獎沒事的人，因為他看到事做不成於是，老闆訓誡做事的人，因為</font><font face="新細明體">他做不成事！一些沒事的人總是</font><font face="新細明體">沒事做！一些做事的人總有做不完的事！一些沒事的人滋事鬧事！使做事的人不得</font><font face="新細明體">不做更多的事！</font><font face="新細明體">結果好事變壞事！小事變大事！簡單的事變複雜的事！</font></font></font></span></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1735654 Thu, 11 Oct 2007 10:06 EST 煩 http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1735647 <p><font face="Arial" color="#2e30ff" size="4">煩...</font></p> <p><font size="4"><font color="#2e30ff"><font face="Arial">職場生涯，像乘坐一台公車。 <br /></font><font face="Arial">我們知道它有起點和終點，卻無法預知沿途的經歷，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人行程長，有的人行程短，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人很從容，可以欣賞窗外的景色，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人很窘迫，總處於推搡和擁擠之中，</font><font face="sans-serif">然而與懸掛在車門上、隨時可能掉下去的人相比，似乎又感欣慰，</font><font face="sans-serif">獲得舒適與優雅，座位是必不可少的機會，因此總被人們爭搶，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人很幸運，一上車就能落座，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人很倒楣，即使全車的人都坐下了，他還站著，</font><font face="sans-serif">有時別處的座位不斷空出來，唯獨身邊這個毫無動靜，</font><font face="sans-serif">而當你下定決心走向別處，剛才那個座位的人卻正好離開，</font><font face="sans-serif">為了坐上或保住座位，有的人漠視良心，甚至傷害他人，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人卻因為這樣那樣的原因，不得不將到手的座位讓給他人，</font><font face="sans-serif">有的人用了種種的方式，經歷了長長的等待，終於可以坐下，</font><font face="sans-serif">但這時他已經到站了，</font><font face="sans-serif">下車的一刻，他回顧車廂，也許會為區區一個座位而感慨，自以為大徹大悟，</font><font face="sans-serif">其實即使重新來過，他依然會去爭搶，因為有時如果不坐下，連站的位置都沒有，</font><font face="sans-serif">除非你永遠不上車，而這並不由自己決定，</font></font></font><font color="#2e30ff"><font size="4"><font face="sans-serif">到站的人下了，車上的人還在。 <br /></font><font face="sans-serif">公車依然熙熙攘攘，乘客依然上上下下..</font></font><font face="sans-serif" size="3"> </font></font></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1735647 Thu, 11 Oct 2007 09:59 EST feeling... http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1732622 <p><font color="#ff69d0" size="4">葉子的離開,是因為風的追求,還是樹的不挽留</font></p> <p><font color="#ff69d0" size="4">倘若你愛上一個人,<br />千萬別裝作無所謂毫不在乎,,<br />錯過了,就沒有了..<br />愛情,玩不起心理戰的...</font></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1732622 Tue, 02 Oct 2007 04:23 EST share : True Friendship poem http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1714566 <p><font color="#bc3dff" size="4">&nbsp;With you, it's all about voiceless communication-always knowing exactly what to say, but never actually having to say it. When no one seems to be listening, you hear. When I hurt but don't show it, you know. When I turn away to hide my tears, you see. When I feel like I can't get through to anyone, you understand. Your eyes glow just for me, and I know you're proud. You flash your magical, healing smile my way, and I know everything will be all right. You know everything there is to know about me. You know what worries me, what keeps me up at night, and what shames me so badly that I can't share it with anyone. Most importantly, though, none of those things bother you. You've restored my faith in people and proved that there is a tihing true friendship</font></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1714566 Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:10 EST 分享:一生不可少的八種朋友 http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1711839 <div class="Section1"> <p><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">　　有這樣一句歌詞：朋友多了路好走。於是，我們便急著把每一個剛剛結識的新面孔呼之為朋友，將其拉入自己的關係圈。但《美國社會學評論》最近刊發的一項調查報告結果顯示，現代人真正的朋友越來越少了，</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">1/4</span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">接受調查的人甚至認為沒有任何人值得信任。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> <br /><br />　　隨著生活節奏的加快，社會的浮躁和功利，人與人之間有著太多分不清的是非真偽，以至於我們對</font></span></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">朋友</span></strong><font face="Arial"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></font><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">的稱謂產生了畏懼。那麼，真正的朋友究竟是什麼樣的，人的一生到底需要什麼樣的朋友呢？美國作家帕爾指出，</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">不要指望一位密友帶給你所需要的一切。 </span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">另一位作家湯姆拉思則認為，以下</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">8</span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">種朋友是必不可少的。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"> <br /><br />　　<span style="COLOR: teal">成就你的朋友</span></font></font></span></span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma" color="#ff0000" size="4"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> </span></font></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　他們會不斷激勵你，讓你看到自己的優點。 <br />　　這類朋友也可稱之為導師型。他們不一定是你的師長，但他們一定會在某些領域具有豐富的經驗，能經常在事業、家庭、人際交往等各方面給你提供許多建議。人生中擁有這種朋友會成為你最大的心理支柱，也常常會成為能夠</font></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> <strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">左右</span></strong></span><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">你的</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">偶像</span></strong><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"> <br /><br />　　<span style="COLOR: teal">支持你的朋友</span></font></font></span></span></strong><font face="Arial" color="#ff0000" size="4"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></font><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　一直維護你，並在別人面前稱讚你。 <br />　　這類朋友可謂是</font></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> <strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">你幫我，我幫你</span></strong></span><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">，相互打氣，使得彼此成為對方成長的墊腳石。在一個人的成長過程中，朋友的支持與鼓勵是最珍貴的。當你遇到挫折時，這類朋友往往可以幫你分擔一部分的心理壓力，他們的信任也恰恰是你的</span></strong><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">強心劑</span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> </span><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> <br /><br />　　</font></span></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> <strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: teal">志同道合的朋友</span></strong></span><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> </span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　和你興趣相近，也是你最有可能與之相處的人。 <br />　　與他們在一起，會讓你有心靈感應，俗稱</font></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">默契</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">。你會因為想的事、說的話都與他們相近，經常有被觸摸心靈的感覺。和他們交往會幫助你不斷地進行自我認同，你的興趣、人生目標或是喜好，都可以與他們分享。這種穩固的感受 </span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">共享</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">會讓你獲得心理上的安全感，因為有他們，你更容易實現理想，並可以快樂地成長。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"> <br /><br />　　<span style="COLOR: teal">牽線搭橋的朋友</span></font></font></span></span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma" color="#ff0000" size="4"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> </span></font></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　認識你之後，很快把你介紹給志同道合者認識。 <br />　　這類朋友是</font></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">幫助型</span></strong><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> <strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">的朋友。在你得意的時候，他們的身影可能並不多見；在你失意的時候，他們卻會及時地出現在你面前。他們始終願意給予你最現實的支持，讓你看到希望和機會，幫助你不斷地得到積極的心理暗示。</span></strong></span><font face="Arial"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></font></font></font><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><br /><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　</font></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"> <strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: teal">給你打氣的朋友</span></strong></span><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> </span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　好玩、能讓你放鬆的朋友。 <br />　　有些朋友，當我們有了心事，有了苦惱時，第一個想要傾訴的對象就是他們。這樣的朋友會是很好的傾聽者，讓你放鬆，在他們面前，你沒有任何心理壓力，總能讓你發洩出自己的 </font></span></strong><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">鬱悶</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot; </span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">，讓你重獲平衡的心態。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"> <br /><br />　　<span style="COLOR: teal">開闊眼界的朋友</span></font></font></span></span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> </font><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">能讓你接觸新觀點、新機會。 這類朋友對於人生也是必不可少。</font></span></strong></span><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> </font></p> <p><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><strong><font face="新細明體"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">他們可謂是你的</span></font></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">大百科全書</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> &quot;</span></font></strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> </span></font></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">。這類朋友的知識廣、視野寬、人際脈絡多，會幫助你獲得許多不同的心理感受，使你成為站得高、看得遠的人。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> <br /><br />　　</font></span></span></strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: teal"><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"> <strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">給你引路的朋友</span></strong></font></font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> </font><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><br /><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　善於幫你理清思路，需要指導和建議時去找他們。 <br />　　這類朋友是</font></span></strong></span><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"><font face="Tahoma"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma"> <strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">&quot;</span></strong></span></font><font face="Arial"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt">指路燈</span></strong><strong><font face="Tahoma"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma">&quot;</span></font></strong></font></font><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">。每個人都有困難和需要，一旦靠自己力量難以化解時，這類朋友總能最及時、最認真地考慮你的問題，給你最適當的建議。在你面對選擇而焦慮、困惑時，不妨找他們聊一聊，或許能幫助你更好的理順情緒，瞭解自己，明確方向。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font size="4"><font color="#ff0000"> <br /><br />　　<span style="COLOR: teal">陪伴你的朋友</span></font></font></span></span></strong><font color="#ff0000" size="4"> </font></p> <p><strong><font face="新細明體"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt"><font color="#ff0000" size="4">　　有了消息，不論是好是壞，總是第一個告訴他們。他們一直和你在一起。</font><span lang="EN-US"><font size="1"><font color="#ff0000"><font size="4"> <br />　　這種朋友的心胸像大海、高山一樣寬廣，不管何時找他們，他們都會熱情相待，並且始終如一地支持你。他們是能讓你感到滿足和平靜的朋友，有時並不需要他們太多的語言，只是默默地陪著你，就能撫平你的心情。</font> </font></font></span></span></font></strong></p> </div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1711839 Wed, 01 Aug 2007 19:50 EST 分享--饒富哲學意味的牆上文學 http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1710698 <font color="#ffb41f"><font size="4">* 有一種高低叫勢力。 <br />* 有一種長短叫是非。 <br />* 有一種大小叫心胸。<br />* 有一種寬窄叫眼光。 <br />* 有一種上下叫門戶。<br />* 有一種左右叫創意。 <br />* 有一種貧富叫閱讀。<br />* 有一種圓缺叫緣份。 <br />* 有一種胖瘦叫天意。 <br />* 有一種前後叫整型。 <br />* 有一種來去叫機會。<br />* 有一種多寡叫幸福。 <br />* 有一種快慢叫婚姻。<br />* 有一種鬆緊叫肚皮。 <br />* 有一種玫瑰叫誠意。<br />* 有一種萬歲叫老婆。 <br />* 有一種大爺叫老公。<br />* 有一種絕配叫牽手。 <br />* 有一種品味叫名牌。<br />* 有一種氣質叫閒俗。 <br />* 有一種糧票叫老公。<br />* 有一種台傭叫老婆。 <br />* 有一種老五叫曠男。<br />* 有一種悶騷叫怨女。 <br />* 有一種帳單叫面子。<br />* 有一種施工叫化妝。 <br />* 有一種聚會叫八卦。<br />* 有一種應酬叫乾杯。 <br />* 有一種神話叫瓊瑤。<br />* 有一種烙印叫初戀。 <br />* 有一種自尊叫長短。<br />* 有一種自信叫大小。 <br />* 有一種緣份叫冤家。<br />* 有一種情人叫備胎。 <br />* 有一種知己叫外遇。<br />* 有一種飯局叫相親。 <br />* 有一種安全叫長相。<br />* 有一種發洩叫刷卡。</font> </font><br /> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1710698 Mon, 30 Jul 2007 00:06 EST share http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1705913 <font color="#f0f02b" size="4">The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all</font> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/sospicasso/journal/1705913 Mon, 16 Jul 2007 23:24 EST