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2008年3月22日 上午5點12分51秒I'm freedom~~
I'm freedom~~
This's what laikuan said...haha~~I already pass up my resignation letter on last Tuesday...is it surprise? actually it is also out of my expectation to do so, I thought it will be happened on April or may...coz I said I want to resign quite long time ago, I think since last year I already said that I want to resign...most of my friends also knew about this, but just that I speak no action...
On end of January, I said that after CNY, I will find another new job and planning to send out my CV during CNY holiday, but then my grandma get stroke, I didn’t do anything during the CNY holiday...
On march, I start to send out my resume, I apply 5 company but just one get response and ask me go for interview, then two more is calling from recruitment agent. At 11th march I took half day leave to go for interview, after back to office, really get shocked that boss asked me why took half day leave and where I went to…And some more that ask me am I going to interview this morning!!! Omg~~luckily I had prepared to say that I went to bank settle something…@@
Next early morning, I received a called from sharizal (recruitment agent - Adecco’s consultant) and saying that I get the offer…J then I planned to pass up my resignation letter on next day, but laikuan said that I better to pass up on the day, because the company that offer me need to make confirmation on my first start working date on next day, so I need to pass up my resignation letter and give one month notice…As what we knew, my boss really not accept my resignation letter…I also felt shine that yesterday just ask me whether is go for interview, next day I wanted to resign…when first step walk into boss’s room to talk about this, boss first saying that I already suspect you gone for interview yesterday…@@ then I just said sorry…if haven’t confirm that get the offer, sure I won’t admit…after the first talk with him, still haven’t get the approval to accept my resignation…he suspect like something was happened in office, but I really give my reason to resign is that I get a better offer, that’s all…Nothing was happened!! around 4pm, his wife(HR Director @@) ask me to talk with her, but also didn’t get conclusion, just ask me to request from the company that offer me to be given 2 more months…I confirmed that they wont allow coz I also ask for start working on may, he also said cant…but she still wants me to ask them…it’s cool that my boss ask laikuan to persuade me to stay back…my resignation letter is laikuan help me to print out… haha…coz don’t know why that day my pc cant connect to the printer, so just ask her help me to print it out…haha~~so they all oso agree me to resign…haha~~
next day, have to second talk with his wife again, I straight said that they really not allowed, I really need to go on mid of April…After that, boss join in and talk with me again, I really don’t want to talk with them already, coz boss still saying the same things, and I will loose coz he’s the kind of person that very good in talking…they act like don’t want to give me the confirmation/approval…I straightly said that we must settle and get conclusion by today…but then he still wants to talk on his story…in between, I also make a lot of story, like this job is introduce by my friend, and he recommend to join in…if I reject now, it’s not good for my friends…blablabla…at last, I suggest that if the person that replace me have any problem or question, he/she can email/call me on weekdays, but still cant get approved, so I suggest again to back on Saturday…so, at last is that I need to work part time on Saturday for them…@@
my last day of work on my current company is 12th April 2008, and 14th will be in new company that offered me…planning to start on may, then still have half a month to go for a trip/break, but they not allowed, so no choice…L
last few months ago, he also asked me that have you think of want to leave from this company before, my answer is current NO, but future don’t know yet…they all said I’m so fake, but then all also answer same as me when boss ask the same question…haha~~ sure will answer like that, wont be said that ya~~I'm finding or seeking a job now…
very happy that my grandma can speak out, even it is not very clear, but she can call out our name, it is a very good view…and this few days also see grandma laugh, since grandma admit to hospital, long time didn't see grandma smile…wish grandma recover soon and in good health …
Wrote at 22 March 2008 10:38pm by shufun
2008年3月10日 上午6點22分00秒婆婆会好的。。。
一月二十九日（星期二）
婆婆突然血压标高，第三度中风，被送进了吉隆坡中央医院。那天的十点多，injune MSN我说婆婆好像不对劲，要送她进院，可是她不肯，她说新年要到了。。。大概三点，婆婆就被送入医院了，那时她已半昏迷了。晚上，看到婆婆时，叫人心酸，婆婆身体左侧动不了了，也说不出话。。。
二月一日（星期五）
是公共假期，星期四晚，我就跟大舅母留下照顾婆婆。那里的空气真的很不流通，婆婆睡的那张床更是闷热，隔两张病床才只有那么一把风扇。婆婆发烧也应该是那里的环境造成的，不要说婆婆顶不顺，我自己的血压也标高了呢！
主治医生-Dr. Joseph大概十二点左右来巡视，他说婆婆因中风，所以体内的分泌物没依照规律流动，而流入了肺部，当我听到医生说流入肺部时，我就控制不住，眼泪流个不停了，问说有什么方法可以阻止，得来的回答只是这是无法控制地。。。医生还解释说婆婆那时的情况，比她那时被送进院时的情况还要不好，他们能做的就是继续吊水，给予辅助呼吸器，药物和抗生素，主要的还是要靠婆婆的意志力，医生还叫我说要通知家人要有心理准备，吓得我不停地哭。大概两点，又有另外一位医生说要见婆婆的儿子，三舅母问什么事，医生说叫儿子来才说，心里也晓得不是什么好消息。等到舅父来了，医生就说明婆婆的身体状况，很不乐观。。。一- 婆婆年纪老了，抵抗力也会比较弱、二- 分泌物流入了肺部，情况危险、三- 婆婆血液里有病菌、四-婆婆血压还蛮高，又有发烧。。。除了药物，主要也要看婆婆的意志力。。。
二月二日（星期六）
二月一日，我整天都在医院照顾婆婆，二月二日就拿病假，轮到我去看医生了，可能是疲劳+不够睡+热的天气，医生说我的血压有点偏高了。看了医生后，本来打算吃了药后就睡觉休息地，injune 却打电话来说婆婆情况不好了，听到电话里的她哭得稀里哗啦地，我也跟着哭了。。。在载着妈妈去医院的路上，反倒过来要妈妈安慰我说别哭了，我真没用，很记得妈妈说的那番话，婆婆老了，有一天总会要走的，只是没想到那天会这么快。。。
新加坡的阿姨、舅舅、舅母和表哥原定星期日才回来的也赶回来了。阿姨也病了，咳嗽咳了一个星期，早上我看医生，晚上又再载阿姨去看医生。。。
二月四日（星期一）
在大家以为婆婆已稳定后，婆婆把大家吓得魂飞魄散，突然情况又转坏，看到她的胸口肿胀起来了，时不时又呼吸困难地， 心也揪紧起来了。。。因为不能走动，长期睡在床上，身上会长白斑点，渐渐变成伤口，除了涂药膏，也要动手替她做运动。。。
二月六日（星期三）
除夕晚， 我和MEI负责照顾婆婆，婆婆整晚都不睡觉，一直要我们帮她做运动，捏/锤打手脚，因为没走动，手脚会麻痹/抽筋。
二月二十一日（星期四）-元宵节
谢天谢地，婆婆出院了。可是那喉管还是得插着带回家，婆婆一定很难过。
婆婆很讨厌用喉管进食，更有一次婆婆一气之下拔掉那喉管，自从那次以后，婆婆就不敢乱动那喉管了，因为很痛很痛。。。很多时候，看见婆婆疼痛的样子，心很难过。。。记得有一次，护士把泡好的牛奶递给我说要喂婆婆时，婆婆那眼神看着我，比手势要我问护士说她要用口喝时，心被针刺似的，不知如何是好。。。只能安慰婆婆说要痊愈，早点儿出院，就不能从口吃喝食物。
婆婆说不出话，我们只能看婆婆的手势，还好我们都猜到婆婆要什么，多半儿都是点嘴（婆婆不能喝水，常常要用湿棉花抹嘴唇），按摩手脚，抹身，扑扇，大便。。。不过也有猜了很久的时候，也不知婆婆要什么。。。大舅母、三舅母、四舅母、姐姐 、inxuan 、mei、 injune 和我，大家都会轮流留在医院照顾婆婆，我多半都是晚班的，回到家看见床，趴下就会睡着了，在医院里，根本睡不着，坐到腰酸背痛的，婆婆也是，晚上都不睡的，下午睡觉，晚上却要我们做运动，我带去的书也只读了十二页。。。 @@ 不过，有几天婆婆发烧，睡了连续三天，整晚什么都没做，反而叫我不习惯，很快地就读完一本书了。。。
有时候，injune 会很气地投诉三舅父一家人。因为三舅母会拿很多借口而不留在医院照顾婆婆，三舅父也很少来，最多也逗留五分钟，她的女儿没上班也不来照顾婆婆。。。
其实，我觉得大家都是希望婆婆好地，只是三舅父和三舅母很相信神，那时候婆婆情况不乐观时，三舅父有用过一块很大的黄布，应该是神符之类的东西，抹婆婆的脸，嘴念念地；三舅母也烧过符水，给婆婆抹身。大家都是有心，只是他们的方法不一，有一次，跟三舅母‘合作’（我们都是轮流两个人留在医院陪婆婆），累坏我了，那天婆婆发烧蛮严重的，护士吩咐说要用湿毛巾替婆婆抹身，以降低体温，三舅母就真的只‘斋坐’，我抹着身，婆婆叫说要点嘴，她也没帮忙。。。我们轮晚班的是很累的，不要说我们很轻松，不信您试试看，只可惜您说怕鬼。。。:P
其实，我总认为我们家里每个人都是很好地，而三舅父和三舅母也不例外，当家里发生事时，大家都会帮忙，有一次，爸爸因骨痛热症住院，妈妈留在医院照顾爸爸，家里就只有我们四姐妹，那时候，我应该是五年级，三舅父和三舅母都会来我们家看顾我们。所以，大家都是好人，有一颗天使的心 J
婆婆因为不能进食，只能喝牛奶，以前婆婆都不喝牛奶的，所以婆婆刚开始都拉肚子，一直到换了牛奶豆粉，才情况转好。可是，婆婆身上的伤口，最严重的是在背部下方，看了叫人心酸，替她涂药时，会看到伤口流出血水，手都会抖了。。。
今年的新年，我们家没有一个是不累坏的。也没有一点儿新年的快乐气氛，就是医院家里两头跑，期间更有我毕生哭得最长时间的一天，眼泪就是很不听使唤的流个不停。不过，有时候，在照顾婆婆的同时，也闹了一些笑话。婆婆只会讲兴化，而我们的兴化就很不流利，因为少讲，也掺杂了广东话，不过婆婆还是会听懂地。可是，最好笑的也莫过于姐姐对婆婆问说：“婆，我动你这个左脚，你有feel 吗？”（兴化语）
还好在大家的照顾下，婆婆也逐渐稳定，但还是需要时间来完全康复。二十几天以来，婆婆消瘦了，手脚的肌肉也松弛了许多。。。愿婆婆早日康复，身体健康，长命百岁。。。
二零零八年三月八日晚上十点二十三分
