saranalin的主頁 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:08 EST Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:08 EST Zorpia.com 緣起 緣滅~對你的告別式 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914329 <p><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">&quot;</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">對不起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我不該打擾你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">!</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不該打電話</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不該傳簡訊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">… </span></strong></p> <p><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我又太自以為是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">~</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">以為我們仍是好朋友</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">;</span></strong></p> <p><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">以為我需要找人聊聊時</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你不會介意提供一個避風港。</span></strong></p> <p><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">當傳出去的簡訊無回應</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">打的電話無人接聽</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong></p> <p><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我想</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">: </span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你不會了解我的感受</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">…</span></strong></p> <p><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我累了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不想再單方面維持友誼</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">如果你認為這樣稱得上是友誼的話</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">! </span></strong></p> <p><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">放過你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></strong><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">也是放了我自己</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">…&quot;</span></strong></p> <p><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">在爺爺出殯的前夕</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">獨自在餐廳裡用餐</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">… </span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">在發出數則簡訊卻得不到任何回應</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">打了數通電話</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">卻無人接聽或被掛斷之後</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我傳了這則簡訊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">…</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">雖然知道你不會有任何反應</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">因為你是如此地絕情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但總是要讓你知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我的心已經累了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">疲倦了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不想再和你玩遊戲</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">…… </span></p> <p><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">當我傳那則簡訊給你時</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我心裡即很清楚地知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">: </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你並不會有任何反應</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">如同我以前所傳的那些簡訊一樣</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">—</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">石沉大海</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></p> <p><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">而且在你心湖裡激不起一點漣漪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">… </span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我很懷疑在你心目中</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我的定位在哪裡</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">? </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">類似的話語以前曾說過</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">也曾想要和你徹底做個了斷</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但最後總是不了了之</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></p> <p><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">如此牽扯了二十餘年。</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">其實我真的累了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">…</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我們的相處模式從以前以來</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">一直就是如此</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">—</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你若不想與我接觸</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">任憑我如何找你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">(</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">打電話、傳簡訊、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">e-mail</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">等</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">),</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">總是徒勞無功。長期下來我總是處於挨打地位</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">時間久了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">人會倦、心會累、情會死、愛會滅</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">… </span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你若懂得珍惜我這個朋友</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">才不枉費我視你為知己</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">, </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">情繫二十餘年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">;</span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但事實是你根本無視於我的存在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我又何必苦苦巴著你不放</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">? </span></p> <p><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你逃避</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我則痛苦難堪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">… </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">何必再為難你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">更為難我自己呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">?…&nbsp;</span></p> <p><font size="4"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span></font></p> <p><font size="4"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"></span></font></p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914329 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 05:44 EST 我還有夢 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914290 <div><font color="#008000" size="3">倘若心真的死了&nbsp; 就無所謂在不在乎</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">但問題是~~心&nbsp; 真的能死嗎??</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">當你說&nbsp; I don't care&nbsp; 時</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">是真的不在乎&nbsp; 還是只是隱藏而已</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">或許只是自欺欺人罷了</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">倘若不如此&nbsp; 你的日子要如何過下去?!</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">你以為已經不再隨著他的舉動起舞</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">然而在潛意識裡&nbsp; 他仍然牽動著妳的神經</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">若無法瀟灑地揮揮衣袖道別離</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">你又該如何自處呢?~</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">何不學我~</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">我還有夢&nbsp;&nbsp;懷抱著與山水田園為伍的夢</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">夢想著與陶淵明一樣的情懷</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;採菊東籬下&nbsp;&nbsp; 悠然見南山</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">寄情於自然美景間</font></div> <div><font color="#008000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 我見青山多嫵媚&nbsp;&nbsp; 料青山見我應如是~~</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914290 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 03:12 EST 選擇 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914267 <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">作家王文華先生說&nbsp;&nbsp; 在人生裡&nbsp; 工作&nbsp; 愛情&nbsp; 婚姻&nbsp; 家庭</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">的選擇中,供需原則依然適用.&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font color="#ff0000" size="3">每做一個選擇,就代表我們錯過了另一個可能擁有</font></div> <div><font color="#ff0000" size="3">而截然不同的人生.</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">但是選擇還是要做,日子還是要活.</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">我們在不同的情況下,要做很多種不同結果的選擇</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">但我們無法預知結果是什麼,也不知道做這樣的選擇</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">需負擔什麼樣的後果</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">走路時&nbsp; 該向左走&nbsp; 或是向右走</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">挑對象時&nbsp; 哪個才是自己生命中的 Mr. or Miss Righ</font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#000000">找工作時&nbsp; 哪個才是自己可以發展所長的場所</font>&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#000000">人</font><font color="#000000">生裡&nbsp; 無時無刻在做選擇</font></font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">偶而&nbsp; 你會為做對了選擇而雀躍不已</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">但有時&nbsp; 也會為做錯選擇而懊惱不已&nbsp; 悔不當初</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">然而&nbsp;&nbsp; 你怎知&nbsp; 所謂的對或錯的選擇&nbsp; 一定是如此</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">不是有句話嗎&nbsp;&nbsp; 失之桑榆&nbsp; 收之東隅</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">還在為做何種選擇而困擾嗎</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">你做對了選擇嗎</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">仔細思考吧&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 朋友</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914267 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 23:57 EST 婚姻 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914144 <div><font color="#000000" size="3">堂弟將於年底結婚&nbsp; 我們討論到婚姻問題</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">我說&nbsp; 我從來不排斥婚姻&nbsp; 但是若婚姻讓你覺得是束縛</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">就不要結婚</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">婚姻是兩個圓交集&nbsp; 有交集部分&nbsp; 也有不交集部分</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">交集部分是屬於兩人共同要經營的空間</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">不交集部分是屬於個人隱私空間</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">婚姻不是只有靠愛情來維持&nbsp; 它需要像事業般苦心經營</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">夫妻間一定要尊重彼此的差異性&nbsp; 亦即不交集的那部分</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">如果妄想去改變對方&nbsp; 無亦是天方夜譚</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">因為我是被束縛著&nbsp; 所以婚姻對我而言&nbsp; 是枷鎖&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">我有一顆不安定&nbsp;&nbsp; 想飛的心&nbsp;&nbsp; 嚮往遼闊的天空</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">任我遨遊&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;雖然會孤單&nbsp;&nbsp; 會有寂寞孤獨的時候</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">但是為了自由&nbsp; 我還是想飛~~~~~~~~~</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914144 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 08:38 EST 隨想曲 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914124 <div><font color="#000000" size="3">在喣喣涼爽的秋風中&nbsp; 思緒也有如走馬燈般旋轉</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; *************</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">心理學家解析的寂寞是:人與人&nbsp; 人與環境&nbsp; 人身與人心</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">之間找不到交集點的虛空情緒</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">而每個人都是單數,即使再親密的人,都不能完全分享</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">彼此的痛苦快樂.&nbsp; 所以,我們會覺得空虛寂寞,</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">哀怨為什麼</font><font color="#000000" size="3">沒人能懂自己,其實是連自己也不懂自己!!</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;***********</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">男性有生理的衝動,女性感情豐富.&nbsp; 一旦失去理智,</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">都可能出軌.</font><font color="#000000" size="3">人與人的關係,尤其是男女的關係</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">是人倫中最薄弱的.&nbsp; </font><font color="#000000" size="3">禁不起一再的試探與不忠.&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">也許一夫一妻制有些違反自然,無法滿足每個人的需要,</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">但人性也渴望安定與歸屬感,嚮往從一而終的深情摯愛.</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">也許終其一生也無法尋覓到從一而終的真愛,但愛過</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">總是無悔&nbsp; 也許不能無怨...............</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ************</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">再強悍的女人,也有跨不過的溫柔情關; </font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">再能幹的女人,</font><font color="#000000" size="3">也必須面對不可避免的挫敗;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">再好命的女人,</font><font color="#000000" size="3">生命中也有風雨.</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">坦然面對自己的柔弱,可以流淚,</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">也可以給流淚的人, </font><font size="3"><font color="#000000">溫柔有力</font><font color="#000000">的雙臂.&nbsp; </font></font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">承認不美好的現實, 為自己尋求一片暫時</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">避風休憩之處,</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">才能讓力量再生 信心恢復,&nbsp;讓夢想得以延續.</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#000000">誰說&nbsp;~~女人的名字是弱者......</font></font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1914124 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 07:14 EST 男人像什麼 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1913152 <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">該用哪種動物或植物來形容男人呢??</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">實在找不出貼切的形容詞放在他們身上!!</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">興之所至&nbsp; 把女人撩的意亂情迷&nbsp; 深陷在五里迷霧中&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">不知所措&nbsp; </font><font color="#0000ff">就算已是四十一枝花的熟女&nbsp; </font></font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">仍不免驚慌迷亂&nbsp; 亂了方寸&nbsp; </font></font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">而男人只是故作瀟灑一句&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></font><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">**just a good friend who will be always </font><font color="#0000ff" size="3">there for you**</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">就以為可以一手遮天&nbsp; 蓋過他所犯下的罪行~~</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">多可恥的行徑!!!!!&nbsp;&nbsp; 真想大聲鞭韃如此可惡可恨之.......</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">無以名之的動物</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">哪天和朋友聊起&nbsp; 才發現天下的男人都是一個樣-----</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">如此地好面子&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 如此地心口不一</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">明明心裡想的是:&nbsp; I want to play love-game with you, </font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">但嘴上說的是:&nbsp; We are just good friends~~</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">我只想說一句:&nbsp; Be a &nbsp;honest&nbsp; man, don't say </font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">something&nbsp;</font><font color="#0000ff">bullshit&nbsp;</font><font color="#0000ff">again.</font></font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1913152 Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:51 EST 點滴自我 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1912928 <div><font color="#000000" size="3">漫畫家朱德庸先生在書裡提到</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 每一次當我戀愛時,自我就一點一滴消失.&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">每一次當我失戀時,</font><font color="#0000ff">自我又一點一滴建立.&nbsp;</font></font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">每當我再次戀愛時, 自我又一次消失.&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">每當我再失戀,自我又會重新建立.</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 我的一生不停在失去自我與建立自我之間循環.&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">女人沒有了自我,只剩下軀殼;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">女人有了自我,剩下的只是孤獨.&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">到底男人要一個符合男人自我的女人</font><font color="#0000ff">,</font></font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">還是要一個符合</font><font color="#0000ff">女人自我的女人.&nbsp; </font></font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 對女人而言,到底是自我重要還是男人重要??</font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#0000ff">其實都不重要,因為對男人而言, </font><font color="#0000ff">新鮮的女人比較重要.</font></font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <font color="#000000">這是多麼一針見血的觀察!&nbsp;對女人而言,</font></font></div> <div><font size="3"><font color="#000000">男人與自我是天秤的兩端;</font><font color="#000000">既不能永遠保持平衡,</font></font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">也無法判斷孰重孰輕; 兩者之間永遠在做角力,</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">努力平衡雙方,希望能求其平衡點.</font></div> <div><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 朱先生說的後面那段,對女人真是一記當頭棒喝 !!</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">曾經迷失自我的女人, 是該覺醒了~~</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1912928 Tue, 23 Jun 2009 05:40 EST 男女大不同 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1912923 <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">男女真是大不同!!</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">在感情上&nbsp; 真是女人較敏感畏縮嗎?/&nbsp; 其實不盡然吧!!</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">女人只是很單純地看待一份情誼...二十年以上的友誼</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">不捨這維持不易的感情(人生在世&nbsp; 能有幾個二十年??)</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">而男人採取的應對方式是...不理不睬&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">深怕說錯一字一語&nbsp; </font><font color="#0000ff" size="3">即會誤觸地雷而死無葬身之處~~</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">然而事實上&nbsp; 真是如此嗎?/</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">或許是男人想得太多&nbsp; 顧忌太多??!!~~</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">落花有意&nbsp; &nbsp;流水無情&nbsp; &nbsp;或是&nbsp;&nbsp; </font><font color="#0000ff" size="3">落花無意&nbsp; &nbsp;流水有情</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">誰知?!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font><font color="#0000ff" size="3">誰能了解自己內心深處真正的想法&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">傾聽自己的心聲&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font><font color="#0000ff" size="3">而不說些違心之論&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">編出冠冕堂皇的理由來自欺欺人......</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">認知上的落差&nbsp; 造成彼此間漸行漸遠~~</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">而終將讓這份情誼無疾而終&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">於是&nbsp; 此後&nbsp; 你我將成為陌路人&nbsp; 走出彼此的世界......</font></div> <div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">此情可待成追憶&nbsp; 只是當時已惘然~~</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1912923 Tue, 23 Jun 2009 05:25 EST 親愛的,請聽我說 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1912730 <div><font color="#000000" size="3">那天&nbsp; 你帶著些微醉意來跟我訴苦</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">說&nbsp; 那個男人&nbsp; &nbsp;為何要在你平靜的心湖</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">激起無可抑制的漣漪後&nbsp;&nbsp; 卻又避不見面</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">你說</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">我只是想有個溫暖的避風港&nbsp; 在我需要時&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">可以暫時停靠休養</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">在我寂寞孤獨時&nbsp; 張開雙臂&nbsp; 給予安全的庇護</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">在我失意落寞時&nbsp; 可以靜靜陪在身旁&nbsp; 心靈上有個依靠</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">在我得意盡歡時&nbsp; 分享我的快樂喜悅</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">當我單純地只是發呆時&nbsp; 有人陪著吹吹風&nbsp; 啥事也不想</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">你說&nbsp; 如此單純要求也錯了嗎</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">親愛的&nbsp; 請聽我說</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">我說哪&nbsp; 男人心&nbsp; 海底針</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">他們把簡單的事情想的太複雜</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">永遠搞不清楚女人想要的是什麼</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">暫時收拾起你的悲傷</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">遠離有關於他的一切</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">等他擺平他自己&nbsp; 釐清他自己的思緒</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">再來想&nbsp;&nbsp; 下一步棋該怎麼走............</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1912730 Mon, 22 Jun 2009 10:22 EST Yes, I love you http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1911585 <p><font size="3">中國人感情含蓄&nbsp; 不把&quot;愛&quot;字輕易出口</font></p> <div><font size="3">不若西方人&nbsp; 隨時都可對人說 &quot; I love you&quot;&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font size="3">不只對情人說&nbsp; </font><font size="3">對子女說&nbsp; 對朋友說&nbsp; 對父母說....</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font size="3">所以&nbsp; 我要對你說&nbsp; Yes, I love you, my friend</font></div> <div><font size="3">我愛你的才華洋溢&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font size="3">我愛你的文筆丰采--與我旗鼓相當</font></div> <div><font size="3">我愛你的胡言亂語--你常說自己是胡說八道</font></div> <div><font size="3">我愛你與我互相標榜的默契</font></div> <div><font size="3">我愛你與我相知相惜的情緣</font></div> <div><font size="3">我愛你.....</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font size="3">人若真能轉世</font></div> <div><font size="3">世間真有輪迴</font></div> <div><font size="3">那麼&nbsp; 我們前生曾是什麼</font></div> <div><font size="3">因此&nbsp; 今生相逢</font></div> <div><font size="3">總覺得&nbsp; 有些前緣未盡</font></div> <div><font size="3">因此&nbsp; 我們應該格外珍惜</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font size="3">君以為呢??</font></div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1911585 Wed, 17 Jun 2009 01:48 EST 癡人說夢話 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1895283 <p><font size="3">當我作了一個好夢時 我會貪戀夢裡美好情境而不願醒來 <br />就算醒來 也會努力想把夢裡美好的感覺延續到現實生活裡 <br />在現實裡 總有許多不滿足和不如意 在夢境裡 有時可以得到滿足 <br /><br />只要作了一個好夢 我的好心情可以持續一整天 <br />那就足以讓我快樂地過一天了<br /></font></p> <p><font size="3">對你而言 朋友的定義是什麼?? <br />雖然不常聯絡 但是在心裡 你佔有一席之地 <br /><br />我曾經那樣倉惶失措地想著你 而你對我的態度卻是避之唯恐不及 <br />對你而言 我有如洪水猛獸 對我而言 你卻是我珍惜的知己好友 <br /><br />這情況 真是教我情何以堪.....</font> </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1895283 Wed, 08 Apr 2009 02:48 EST 隨想,抒懷 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1889598 <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">最近看了張曼娟的書,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">心中有許多感慨</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">!! </span></font></font></p> <p>&nbsp; </p> <p><font color="#c00000"><strong><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">她說</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">:</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">生活是一場冒險</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">有時候華麗</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">有時候千瘡百孔</span></font> </strong></font></p> <p><font size="3"><font color="#c00000"><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">許多心情不知從何說起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">或者根本找不到人訴說</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">. </span></strong></font></font></p> <p><font color="#c00000"><strong><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">於是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">覺得寂寞了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">. </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你開始寂寞</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">也許已經寂寞了許久</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">.</span></font> </strong></font></p> <p><font size="3"><font color="#c00000"><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">假若有人問你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">: </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">過得好不好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">? </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你要怎樣回答</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">??&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></strong></font></font></p> <p><font color="#c00000"><strong><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">又說</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">: </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">現代人太愛自己</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">於是愛人不起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">. </span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">淺薄的雙溪舴艋舟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></font> </strong></font></p> <p><font size="3"><font color="#c00000"><strong><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">載不動沉重的承諾和羈絆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">.</span></strong></font></font> </p> <p>&nbsp; </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">因為不想承諾和羈絆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">所以</span></font><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你不願意愛人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">是嗎</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">? </font></span></font></p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">只想</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">千山我獨行</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不必相送</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">的瀟灑情懷吧</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">……&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></font></font> </p> <p><font face="Times New Roman"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">&nbsp;</span></font></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">婚姻不見得適合每個人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">能在婚姻中安定下來</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></font></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">是一種很幸福的感覺</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">. </font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">你有什麼想法嗎</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">??~~</font></span></font> </p> <p><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman"><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></font></span> </p> <p><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><font size="3">&nbsp;</font></span> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我喜歡騎著單車慢慢騎</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">欣賞沿路風景</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">一花一草都令我驚喜感動</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">.</span></font></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">雖然太陽炎熱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但涼風吹拂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">身心暢快</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">! </span></font></font></p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">上坡的氣喘如牛</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">下坡的馳騁快意</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">讓我暫時忘卻高升的失業率</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">,</span></font></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">不景氣的經濟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">!&nbsp; </font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">此刻</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我在東豐鐵馬道</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black">……</span></font></font> </p> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1889598 Thu, 19 Mar 2009 08:27 EST 愛 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1877906 <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #444444; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"></span></p> <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #444444; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"></span></p> <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #444444; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"></span></p> <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #444444; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"></span></p> <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #444444; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"></span></p> <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #444444; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"></span></p> <p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">&quot;</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">愛</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">&quot;</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">是什麼</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">? </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">愛是由許多個喜歡所組成</span></font> </span> <div></div><nobr id="blogDT" /> </p> <div> <p><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font size="3">喜歡對方的溫柔體貼</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">喜歡對方與你心靈相通</span></font> </p> <p><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font size="3">喜歡彼此的相知相惜</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">喜歡彼此文筆旗鼓相當</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"> </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">互相標榜的感情</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">,<br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">喜歡</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">....</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但是我愛他嗎</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">? who knows it?!<br /><br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">留戀他並不是因為初戀的緣故</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">(</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">雖然只是暗戀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">)</span></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">只是不捨那份二十餘年的友情</span></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">雖然我們的交往始終是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">--</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">君子之交淡如水</span></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">但也是屬於細水長流</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">….</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">若不是</span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font size="3">前陣子我壞了那份彼此不願明說的默契</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font size="3">現今也不會變成形同陌路</font></span><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">...<br /><br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">小阿姨說</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">,</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我攤了太多自己的底牌在他面前</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">讓他失去</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"> <span lang="EN-US">hunting </span></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">樂趣</span></font> </p> <p><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">所以現在只能耐心等候</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><span>&nbsp; </span></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">三年或五年</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">,maybe..<br /><br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">其實不放下又能如何</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">?? </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">以前我曾說過</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">--<br /></span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">女人抬高身段</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"> </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">男人躲得遠遠的</span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">女人放下身段</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"> </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">男人不見得憐惜</span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /></span><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">放與不放間</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"> </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">女人都相當為難</span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><br /><br /></span><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">所以</span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"> </span><span style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">何苦再為難自己呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">?!!!</span></font></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1877906 Wed, 04 Feb 2009 23:51 EST 我要的不多 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1807510 <p><font color="#000000" size="3">靈,一位多愁善感的女子...............</font></p> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">妳說, 他的言行舉止&nbsp; &nbsp; 總是牽引著妳的喜怒哀樂&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">因他喜而喜&nbsp;&nbsp; 因他憂而憂</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">然而&nbsp; 他並不知道&nbsp; 他的無意舉動&nbsp; 牽動著妳的神經</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">妳已失去了自我&nbsp;&nbsp; 他卻渾然不知</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">妳說, 我要的真的不多~~~~~~~</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">只是一個眼神交會, 就能彼此心領神會的默契</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">&nbsp;</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">只是一個溫柔的擁抱, 就足以抗衡寒冷的冬天</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">只是一通關心的電話, 就能讓妳雀躍感動一整天</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">只是一句溫馨的關懷, 就能讓妳整天心情愉快</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">妳說, 我要的這些是奢求嗎???&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">我要的真的不多呵!!!!</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">親愛的朋友, 我無言以對...........</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">因為妳比對方更在乎於他在乎妳(也許他並不在乎妳)</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">因為你們的立足點並不平等</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">因為其實男人大多是遊戲人間</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">因為..............</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">女人放下身段&nbsp;&nbsp; 男人不見得會疼惜</font></div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">女人抬高身段&nbsp;&nbsp; 男人會躲得遠遠的</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#000000" size="3">所以&nbsp;&nbsp; 女人難為~~~~~~~</font>&nbsp;</div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1807510 Tue, 27 May 2008 02:44 EST 教我不想他 也難 http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1806146 <p><font color="#993300" size="3">天天天藍&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 潘越雲</font></p> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 天天天藍&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 教我不想他&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;也難</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 不知情的孩子&nbsp;&nbsp; 他還要問</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 你的眼睛為什麼出汗</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 情是深&nbsp;&nbsp; 意是濃&nbsp;&nbsp; 離是苦&nbsp;&nbsp; 想是空</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">深陷在情海裡的男女載浮載沉&nbsp;&nbsp; 誰能拉他們一把??</font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">是得不到回應的單戀&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 是無法修成正果的苦戀</font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">是濃情蜜意的甜蜜愛戀&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">還是遊戲人間的貪戀~~~~~~~~~~</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">你在尋找那個&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 眾裡尋他千百度&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 驀然回首</font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 那人卻在燈火闌珊處</font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">的最佳男(女)主角嗎???</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div>&nbsp;</div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">情關難過&nbsp; 我想只有自己能救贖自己罷了.......</font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">何不瀟灑地揮一揮衣袖&nbsp; 不帶走一片雲彩</font></div> <div><font color="#993300" size="3">只在你心中留下些雪泥鴻爪~~~~~~~~</font></div> <div>&nbsp;</div> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/saranalin/journal/1806146 Thu, 22 May 2008 08:15 EST