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2009年5月19日 下午4點31分40秒MOMENTS OF MARRIED LOVE
Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim
"In the name of Allah, most Gracious, most Compassionate".
"In the name of Allah, most Gracious, most Compassionate".
Moments of Married Love… The Untold Story
Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) & Lady Aishah (May Allah be Pleased with her)
worth reading for all muslim present and future couples ....
By Majida Islam Khan
We all have a certain image of lovers, a star-crossed pair, love at first sight, living happily ever after…
Normally, we associate these ideas of love with couples who meet, date, and fall head over heels for each other. Very rarely do we relate these images to married couples.
Moreover, we almost never connect this perception to Muslim couples, who marry according to purely Islamic customs. Although this link is quite rare, there actually exists an example in Islam's own history, which not only depicts this kind of love but goes far beyond it.
This is the pure, married love between the Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and his beloved, Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her).
The two came together in circumstances that are a stark contrast to today's conventional love story. He was a devoted Messenger of God, embarking on the third year of prophethood; she was the daughter of his best friend and companion, Abu Bakr.
worth reading for all muslim present and future couples ....
By Majida Islam Khan
We all have a certain image of lovers, a star-crossed pair, love at first sight, living happily ever after…
Normally, we associate these ideas of love with couples who meet, date, and fall head over heels for each other. Very rarely do we relate these images to married couples.
Moreover, we almost never connect this perception to Muslim couples, who marry according to purely Islamic customs. Although this link is quite rare, there actually exists an example in Islam's own history, which not only depicts this kind of love but goes far beyond it.
This is the pure, married love between the Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and his beloved, Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her).
The two came together in circumstances that are a stark contrast to today's conventional love story. He was a devoted Messenger of God, embarking on the third year of prophethood; she was the daughter of his best friend and companion, Abu Bakr.
Infusing Romance
The compassionate nature of the Prophet(Peace be upon him) made a tremendous impact on the strong woman AishaMay Allah be Pleased with her) went on to become. The early years of their marriage began quite innocently. Although Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her) was a young bride, she was in the standard marriageable age that the Arabian culture approved of and encourages at that time.
The clear evidence is that Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
had already been engaged to another man before her engagement to the Prophet(Peace be upon him).
Though Aishah was ready for marriage life, the Prophet(Peace be upon him) preferred to grant her extra support in her transition to life as a married woman. She carried on with the many joys of childhood and fortunate for her, as she had a husband gentle and kind enough to understand this.
Rather than throwing all the responsibilities of a wife on her at once, the Prophet(Peace be upon him) made the marriage and its duties a gradual process for Aishah (May Allah be Pleased with her) and ensured that she made a smooth transition into her new life. The compassionate nature with which he nurtured Aishah in her early years as a wife made a tremendous impact on the strong woman she went on to become.
Aisha fondly recalls memories of racing with the Prophet(Peace be upon him). As the so called "honeymoon period" between the couple came to an end, many challenges and trying moments began to arise. In the midst of all the mayhem, this blessed couple still took time out for simple fun and laughter.
The compassionate nature of the Prophet(Peace be upon him) made a tremendous impact on the strong woman AishaMay Allah be Pleased with her) went on to become. The early years of their marriage began quite innocently. Although Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her) was a young bride, she was in the standard marriageable age that the Arabian culture approved of and encourages at that time.
The clear evidence is that Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
had already been engaged to another man before her engagement to the Prophet(Peace be upon him).
Though Aishah was ready for marriage life, the Prophet(Peace be upon him) preferred to grant her extra support in her transition to life as a married woman. She carried on with the many joys of childhood and fortunate for her, as she had a husband gentle and kind enough to understand this.
Rather than throwing all the responsibilities of a wife on her at once, the Prophet(Peace be upon him) made the marriage and its duties a gradual process for Aishah (May Allah be Pleased with her) and ensured that she made a smooth transition into her new life. The compassionate nature with which he nurtured Aishah in her early years as a wife made a tremendous impact on the strong woman she went on to become.
Aisha fondly recalls memories of racing with the Prophet(Peace be upon him). As the so called "honeymoon period" between the couple came to an end, many challenges and trying moments began to arise. In the midst of all the mayhem, this blessed couple still took time out for simple fun and laughter.
Aishah fondly recalls memories of racing with the Prophet(Peace be upon him) and even winning the race when she was young and fit (Ibn Al Jawzy 68).
They enjoyed these races so much that the couple even raced to the Battle of Badr which was one of the most important battles in the Islamic history.
Aishah would take a sip and then the Prophet(Peace be upon him) would do so from the same spot her lips touched.
The romance in this marriage was not limited to just fun and games. As their marriage continued, intimacy was ultimately inter-woven in their daily affairs.
They would sit and eat together and Aishah would take a sip and then the Prophet(Peace be upon him) would do so from the same spot her lips touched.
She would have some meat or chicken, and then he would eat from the same spot she ate from. This is just one of many ways they infused romance and affection in even the simplest of acts. These small gestures show that in this marriage, romance was not a superficial bouquet of roses. Rather, it was natural and existed in their everyday life.
Love has several expressions. However, it is known to all and sundry that for a woman, nothing expresses love like the words a man simply speaks from his heart.
They enjoyed these races so much that the couple even raced to the Battle of Badr which was one of the most important battles in the Islamic history.
Aishah would take a sip and then the Prophet(Peace be upon him) would do so from the same spot her lips touched.
The romance in this marriage was not limited to just fun and games. As their marriage continued, intimacy was ultimately inter-woven in their daily affairs.
They would sit and eat together and Aishah would take a sip and then the Prophet(Peace be upon him) would do so from the same spot her lips touched.
She would have some meat or chicken, and then he would eat from the same spot she ate from. This is just one of many ways they infused romance and affection in even the simplest of acts. These small gestures show that in this marriage, romance was not a superficial bouquet of roses. Rather, it was natural and existed in their everyday life.
Love has several expressions. However, it is known to all and sundry that for a woman, nothing expresses love like the words a man simply speaks from his heart.
The Prophet(Peace be upon him) was most forthcoming in expressing his love for Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
and this is evident in multiple sayings (hadith) in which he publicly declares that Aishah is the most beloved to him.
Such profound love he held for his wife that he referred to her as one with the complete qualities of a believing woman. This is a clear sign of the kind of respect he held for his wife.
This respect was possible because he actually put forth the time and effort in getting to know and understand his wife enough to recommend her as an example for other women to follow.
Brilliant Student & Great Teacher
A crucial dimension to their equation was the student-teacher relationship they shared. Aishah's enthusiastic and inquisitive nature made her one of the foremost students of the Prophet.
Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her) was a woman of substance who was never afraid to stand up for truth and justice. Sent as a teacher to mankind, the Prophet (Peace be upon him) implemented this role most effectively in his very own home. The Islamic virtues and way of life Aishah learned and carried out were essentially through watching the Prophet and keenly observing his behavior and mannerisms.
He led by example and his beloved wife testifies to this in stating that the manners of the prophet(Peace be upon him) were a living example of the Quran. (At-Tirmidhi)
Far from being meek and oppressed, Aishah was a woman of substance who was never afraid to stand up for truth and justice — whether that meant defending herself or her beloved husband. She participated in battles when she was able to and played whatever role she could in supporting the Prophet in his endeavors.
and this is evident in multiple sayings (hadith) in which he publicly declares that Aishah is the most beloved to him.
Such profound love he held for his wife that he referred to her as one with the complete qualities of a believing woman. This is a clear sign of the kind of respect he held for his wife.
This respect was possible because he actually put forth the time and effort in getting to know and understand his wife enough to recommend her as an example for other women to follow.
Brilliant Student & Great Teacher
A crucial dimension to their equation was the student-teacher relationship they shared. Aishah's enthusiastic and inquisitive nature made her one of the foremost students of the Prophet.
Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her) was a woman of substance who was never afraid to stand up for truth and justice. Sent as a teacher to mankind, the Prophet (Peace be upon him) implemented this role most effectively in his very own home. The Islamic virtues and way of life Aishah learned and carried out were essentially through watching the Prophet and keenly observing his behavior and mannerisms.
He led by example and his beloved wife testifies to this in stating that the manners of the prophet(Peace be upon him) were a living example of the Quran. (At-Tirmidhi)
Far from being meek and oppressed, Aishah was a woman of substance who was never afraid to stand up for truth and justice — whether that meant defending herself or her beloved husband. She participated in battles when she was able to and played whatever role she could in supporting the Prophet in his endeavors.
Surviving Hardships
There was something quite distinct about Aishah which drew the Prophet(Peace be upon him) so close to her.
Her quality of being content regardless of circumstances helped her overcome many challenges she faced as the Prophet's wife.
There was a time in the Prophet's(Peace be upon him) home, when they had no fire or food for cooking and they simply lived off of dates and water. Yet Aishah went through this hardship and showed the mark of a true companion — one who can offer unrelenting support even under the most trying circumstances.
A truly dynamic woman, complete with the qualities of virtue, intelligence and even possessiveness over her husband — there was something quite distinct about Aishah which drew the Prophet so close to her.
Passing On Her Husband's Legacy
The Prophet(Peace be upon him) and his beloved connected as soul mates, as he received divine revelations often when he was with her. The fact that God blessed and ordained this marriage is evident in that the Prophet confessed to Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
that before marrying her, he saw her twice in his dreams.
Both times, Angel Gabriel carried her to him in a silk cloth and said to him, that Aishah would be his(Peace be upon him) wife in this world and in the Hereafter (Al-Bukhari). Their blessed companionship came to a peaceful end after nine years, when the Prophet(Peace be upon him) drew his last breath in Aishah's arms.
Upon the Prophet's(Peace be upon him) demise, Aishah's youth gave her the capacity to continue to preach Islam's messsage.The Prophet's(Peace be upon him) demise may have ended their companionship in this world. However, it did not put a stop to his mission nor did it end Aishah's role in carrying out her beloved's message.
It was after the Prophet's(Peace be upon him) demise that one can truly see the divine purpose behind this marriage. Because she spent the most formative years of her life with the Prophet, she was able to learn and imbibe all of his teachings.
There was something quite distinct about Aishah which drew the Prophet(Peace be upon him) so close to her.
Her quality of being content regardless of circumstances helped her overcome many challenges she faced as the Prophet's wife.
There was a time in the Prophet's(Peace be upon him) home, when they had no fire or food for cooking and they simply lived off of dates and water. Yet Aishah went through this hardship and showed the mark of a true companion — one who can offer unrelenting support even under the most trying circumstances.
A truly dynamic woman, complete with the qualities of virtue, intelligence and even possessiveness over her husband — there was something quite distinct about Aishah which drew the Prophet so close to her.
Passing On Her Husband's Legacy
The Prophet(Peace be upon him) and his beloved connected as soul mates, as he received divine revelations often when he was with her. The fact that God blessed and ordained this marriage is evident in that the Prophet confessed to Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
that before marrying her, he saw her twice in his dreams.
Both times, Angel Gabriel carried her to him in a silk cloth and said to him, that Aishah would be his(Peace be upon him) wife in this world and in the Hereafter (Al-Bukhari). Their blessed companionship came to a peaceful end after nine years, when the Prophet(Peace be upon him) drew his last breath in Aishah's arms.
Upon the Prophet's(Peace be upon him) demise, Aishah's youth gave her the capacity to continue to preach Islam's messsage.The Prophet's(Peace be upon him) demise may have ended their companionship in this world. However, it did not put a stop to his mission nor did it end Aishah's role in carrying out her beloved's message.
It was after the Prophet's(Peace be upon him) demise that one can truly see the divine purpose behind this marriage. Because she spent the most formative years of her life with the Prophet, she was able to learn and imbibe all of his teachings.
This became a tremendous asset after the Messenger passed away and was only possible because of Aishah's age. Upon his demise, Aishah's(May Allah be Pleased with her) youth gave her the capacity to continue to preach Islam's message for the many years she lived thereafter.
Many companions of the Prophet(Peace be upon him) and new followers of Islam would come to Lady Aishah for advice on various Islamic matters. Her contribution in relating numerous sayings of the Prophet and providing clarification on questions related to faith soon catapulted her to the status of a prominent Islamic scholar.
The love story between the Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
provides a realistic perception of how true love can be found within a marriage.Aishah's role in this marriage was one that God destined in order to ensure that the teachings of Islam will be successfully transmitted to coming generations even after the Prophet passed away.
The love story between the Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
may not be what epic romances are made of, but it certainly provides a more realistic perception of how true love can be found within a marriage.
Many companions of the Prophet(Peace be upon him) and new followers of Islam would come to Lady Aishah for advice on various Islamic matters. Her contribution in relating numerous sayings of the Prophet and providing clarification on questions related to faith soon catapulted her to the status of a prominent Islamic scholar.
The love story between the Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
provides a realistic perception of how true love can be found within a marriage.Aishah's role in this marriage was one that God destined in order to ensure that the teachings of Islam will be successfully transmitted to coming generations even after the Prophet passed away.
The love story between the Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her)
may not be what epic romances are made of, but it certainly provides a more realistic perception of how true love can be found within a marriage.
The sole purpose of marriage in Islam is to fulfill an individual's need for companionship and true love. Islam emphasizes and encourages this fulfillment but only within the bond of marriage.
The Prophet's(Peace be upon him) marriage to Aishah shows that intimacy and romance is not necessarily limited to rosy-eyed young dating couples. This blessed couple exemplified that the true love and companionship we all seek, is entirely possible within marriage and moreover, within the Islamic way of life.
Today, this is a marriage which many may choose to slander or demean. Yet one needs only to take a look at the evidence Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her) left behind, in the form of numerous sayings they related, which testify so dearly to the love and intimacy they shared.
The most famous love stories in this world are those that were a figment of someone's imagination. Yet this is a love which actually existed. It was a love created and destined by God himself.
The Prophet's(Peace be upon him) marriage to Aishah shows that intimacy and romance is not necessarily limited to rosy-eyed young dating couples. This blessed couple exemplified that the true love and companionship we all seek, is entirely possible within marriage and moreover, within the Islamic way of life.
Today, this is a marriage which many may choose to slander or demean. Yet one needs only to take a look at the evidence Prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) and Lady Aishah(May Allah be Pleased with her) left behind, in the form of numerous sayings they related, which testify so dearly to the love and intimacy they shared.
The most famous love stories in this world are those that were a figment of someone's imagination. Yet this is a love which actually existed. It was a love created and destined by God himself.
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??How to Treat a Woman??Some Men are just oblivious! Women like acknowledgment and loving affection. They want a person with whom they can relate. They want a person they can trust. They want to be able to discuss future plans and problems they might be having, without difficulties. Women are mysterious, but they will show you what it feels like to be truly loved, as long as you're willing and able to accept the responsibility of a true loving relationship. You have to show them and mean it, no matter how hard it may be for you at the time.Steps 1. Be compassionate and understanding. Women like men who are compassionate and understanding and someone who always genuinely cares. A woman wants to be able to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice guy." A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and to SHOW her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card, FOR NO REASON, or even just a phone call or leaving a cute message on her voice mail while she is at work!!! All a little extra touch that tell her she matters.
2. Give her thoughtful gifts-women love SURPRISES. Gifts don't always need to be expensive, but always from the heart. Gifts should never be about the "money" it's the thought involved and the reason behind it. It just shows you really care and she is the one you are thinking about.
3. Give flowers and jewelery for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday. Even if you are away, you can order them online and have them delivered on the date you choose. Apply for credit at the jewelery store. When you pay something off it builds your credit rate with the bank and with her. Some of the best things are just a simple pair of earrings, a single flower she loves, a piece of clothing. Men sometimes think they have to be rich but its the thought guys. Remember to send stuff to her office on occasion as a nice surprise. It isn't enough to make her feel important it's also important for others around her to see she's treated well and spoiled.
4. Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas,New Years, Valentines Day, Mother's Day--all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was. If you want to be King then you better be on top of things. Anything is better than nothing.
5. Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, and that she has lovely eyes. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect.
6. Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
7. When you are in places where you can't be visibly affectionate, look at her and smile lovingly. Hold her hands as often as you can and stay close to her. You can kiss on her forehead or hand in a way that is appropriate in public and still conveys your love. Be a gentleman, OPEN the doors for her, some say this is "old fashioned" Not the case, it is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady. Help her with the groceries, help her shop for clothes, this also gives you some say in what she selects. That can work to your advantage if you play the cards right especially in the (lingerie department).
8. Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
9. Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know he is in love with you.
10. Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
11. Remember special events like birthday, anniversary, Valentines Day, etc. (NOTE: This day is just another day. Don't just give her things just because of this one day of the year; appreciate her and show her how much you care every day.)
12. Do not ever say another woman is beautiful to you. (if the woman you are with is not the most beautiful woman to you than you are not in love) Be careful with how you treat other woman. Even if they are and were your friends before her. Any favors, gestures or flirting can be just like cheating.
13. Smile and be polite.
14. Remember: Work is important. But so is she. Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to.
15. Don't leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bed room! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ's watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
16. Tell her she is beautiful. Not hot. "Pretty" and "hot" have their place, but "beautiful" goes right to the heart. Sometimes she'll look hot or sexy, so tell her. Don't tell her too often that she is cute, she is after all a woman and not a child. Pay attention and know what part of her ego needs reinforcing.
17. Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! But sometimes she wants to feel like she's arm candy to you.
18. If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Explain later, if she asks for explanation. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. It's possible she will give up on the fight and forget about it.
19. You should accept her interest in hobbies that don't involve you.
20. Surprise her with romantic dinners out, couples massages at a great spa or a weekend rendezvous. Do all the planning and give her the feeling she's being whisked away. Do not always leave everything up to her to decide.
21. Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason, because she talks to them about you all the time. They know she's taken.
22. Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won't know you said it. It's always best, anyways. (Women just know things. They're very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her ASAP, and only good things can come from that.
23. Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is.
24. Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.
25. And please never forget, compliments go a long way. You can't be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you're involved, just stop the charm! That's not right, and it makes her feel like she's done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she'll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you're going to be charming and romantic, you have to STAY that way. PERIOD. No matter how "comfortable" you are. A woman NEEDS the man she fell in love with. Don't become detached and take her for granted.
26. Romance her (COURTSHIP) that is after all the males role. Try to catch her attention. There needs to be some romance in the relationship. Maybe not every day, but court her. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. And don't expect certain things at the end of the night. However, 9 times out of ten, you play your cards right and she will initiate. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don't surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable women, money or random gifts that cost to much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for $100 or less! It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a women if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts, as long as they are thoughtful, it won't matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
27. If you want it to go further than "making out," you have to "make out" first. You can't skip steps! If she lets you, it's only because she thinks that's what you want. She loves the steps it takes getting there. Even if you've gone that far before, this STILL APPLIES!!!!!!
28. So note, women are delicate, even the toughest of women long for romance. Think with your own mind and let your true affections show. Nothing speaks more than written words. If you are in a good relationship she will do the same in return. But be Men, and step into your role! Women want to feel wanted that you enjoy their company
29. Don't go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Do not use profanity as you will lose an argument automatically.
30. Don't make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
31. Always take care of your girl-make sure all her needs are met. Besides a home, car, electric, water, food, clothing, appliances, medical, dental, vision and all those other needs, she needs to know most of all that you LOVE HER AND ONLY HER. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
32. Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents you should might as well say goodbye to her.
Tips * Be honest with her, she will respect you more for it.
* Don't break promises with excuses.
* Don't belittle her or insult her.
* BE SUPPORTIVE of her at all times.
* Help with HER projects, whether she helps with yours or not! But keep in mind you never want a selfish girlfriend, if you're doing everything you can to help her out, expect the same in return. She'll be happy to do whatever she can for you, too.
* Make an effort with your appearance.
* Acknowledge her appearance when she looks good. Tell her she looks beautiful.
* Make her feel special at all times.
* Take her on a romantic break and somewhere really special if you are in a relationship, or a special night out if just dating.
* Buy her little gifts if you see something that she would like (don't wait for a special occasion).
* Don't criticize (unless it is hurting you). Look for the good.
* DON'T skips steps on the romantic level. Some of the best times are those times LEADING UP TO sex.
* Let her know how it makes you feel to have her as a girlfriend, and that there's no other person in the world you'd rather be with. (and if you have to lie to say this, you're not really in love.)
* Tell her she's important to you, that she's special to you, and that she's beautiful on a REGULAR BASIS.
* Write poems to her because poems tend to show how a person really feels about something and if she sees you wrote a poem to her, then she will see your feelings about her and she will love the way you talk about her.
Warnings * Treating a woman well is one thing. Sacrificing your self-respect and dignity is another. Maintain a sense of self and your own values. If you communicate your feelings about your own self-respect and dignity. Someone who respects himself can be all the more attractive.
* Don't exaggerate on compliments and go out of your way to try to be with her all the time, or she will think you are a phony. Also don't neglect her too often or she may run into someone else who doesn't. A woman needs to feel wanted.
* Men get hung up on the fact engagement rings cost so much, remember this - its a symbol of your love, it is something she will wear for the rest of her life, it is the most important piece of jewelry she will ever receive and wear proudly, she will want to brag to her friends about it!! I'm not saying you have to spend $20,000 on a diamond ring - but get the scoop from her friends, every woman dreams about her engagement ring and has talked about it with her friends!
* Remember that all women are different. Never, ever say things like, "I bought you flowers. You're supposed to like that. You're a woman!" or "You better like what I bought you. I paid a lot of money for it."
* Don't make promises and not keep them. You may end up losing her.
* When she is upset, legitimately care.
2. Give her thoughtful gifts-women love SURPRISES. Gifts don't always need to be expensive, but always from the heart. Gifts should never be about the "money" it's the thought involved and the reason behind it. It just shows you really care and she is the one you are thinking about.
3. Give flowers and jewelery for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday. Even if you are away, you can order them online and have them delivered on the date you choose. Apply for credit at the jewelery store. When you pay something off it builds your credit rate with the bank and with her. Some of the best things are just a simple pair of earrings, a single flower she loves, a piece of clothing. Men sometimes think they have to be rich but its the thought guys. Remember to send stuff to her office on occasion as a nice surprise. It isn't enough to make her feel important it's also important for others around her to see she's treated well and spoiled.
4. Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas,New Years, Valentines Day, Mother's Day--all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was. If you want to be King then you better be on top of things. Anything is better than nothing.
5. Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, and that she has lovely eyes. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect.
6. Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
7. When you are in places where you can't be visibly affectionate, look at her and smile lovingly. Hold her hands as often as you can and stay close to her. You can kiss on her forehead or hand in a way that is appropriate in public and still conveys your love. Be a gentleman, OPEN the doors for her, some say this is "old fashioned" Not the case, it is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady. Help her with the groceries, help her shop for clothes, this also gives you some say in what she selects. That can work to your advantage if you play the cards right especially in the (lingerie department).
8. Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
9. Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know he is in love with you.
10. Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
11. Remember special events like birthday, anniversary, Valentines Day, etc. (NOTE: This day is just another day. Don't just give her things just because of this one day of the year; appreciate her and show her how much you care every day.)
12. Do not ever say another woman is beautiful to you. (if the woman you are with is not the most beautiful woman to you than you are not in love) Be careful with how you treat other woman. Even if they are and were your friends before her. Any favors, gestures or flirting can be just like cheating.
13. Smile and be polite.
14. Remember: Work is important. But so is she. Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to.
15. Don't leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bed room! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ's watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
16. Tell her she is beautiful. Not hot. "Pretty" and "hot" have their place, but "beautiful" goes right to the heart. Sometimes she'll look hot or sexy, so tell her. Don't tell her too often that she is cute, she is after all a woman and not a child. Pay attention and know what part of her ego needs reinforcing.
17. Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! But sometimes she wants to feel like she's arm candy to you.
18. If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Explain later, if she asks for explanation. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. It's possible she will give up on the fight and forget about it.
19. You should accept her interest in hobbies that don't involve you.
20. Surprise her with romantic dinners out, couples massages at a great spa or a weekend rendezvous. Do all the planning and give her the feeling she's being whisked away. Do not always leave everything up to her to decide.
21. Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason, because she talks to them about you all the time. They know she's taken.
22. Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won't know you said it. It's always best, anyways. (Women just know things. They're very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her ASAP, and only good things can come from that.
23. Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is.
24. Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.
25. And please never forget, compliments go a long way. You can't be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you're involved, just stop the charm! That's not right, and it makes her feel like she's done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she'll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you're going to be charming and romantic, you have to STAY that way. PERIOD. No matter how "comfortable" you are. A woman NEEDS the man she fell in love with. Don't become detached and take her for granted.
26. Romance her (COURTSHIP) that is after all the males role. Try to catch her attention. There needs to be some romance in the relationship. Maybe not every day, but court her. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. And don't expect certain things at the end of the night. However, 9 times out of ten, you play your cards right and she will initiate. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don't surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable women, money or random gifts that cost to much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for $100 or less! It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a women if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts, as long as they are thoughtful, it won't matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
27. If you want it to go further than "making out," you have to "make out" first. You can't skip steps! If she lets you, it's only because she thinks that's what you want. She loves the steps it takes getting there. Even if you've gone that far before, this STILL APPLIES!!!!!!
28. So note, women are delicate, even the toughest of women long for romance. Think with your own mind and let your true affections show. Nothing speaks more than written words. If you are in a good relationship she will do the same in return. But be Men, and step into your role! Women want to feel wanted that you enjoy their company
29. Don't go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Do not use profanity as you will lose an argument automatically.
30. Don't make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
31. Always take care of your girl-make sure all her needs are met. Besides a home, car, electric, water, food, clothing, appliances, medical, dental, vision and all those other needs, she needs to know most of all that you LOVE HER AND ONLY HER. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
32. Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents you should might as well say goodbye to her.
Tips * Be honest with her, she will respect you more for it.
* Don't break promises with excuses.
* Don't belittle her or insult her.
* BE SUPPORTIVE of her at all times.
* Help with HER projects, whether she helps with yours or not! But keep in mind you never want a selfish girlfriend, if you're doing everything you can to help her out, expect the same in return. She'll be happy to do whatever she can for you, too.
* Make an effort with your appearance.
* Acknowledge her appearance when she looks good. Tell her she looks beautiful.
* Make her feel special at all times.
* Take her on a romantic break and somewhere really special if you are in a relationship, or a special night out if just dating.
* Buy her little gifts if you see something that she would like (don't wait for a special occasion).
* Don't criticize (unless it is hurting you). Look for the good.
* DON'T skips steps on the romantic level. Some of the best times are those times LEADING UP TO sex.
* Let her know how it makes you feel to have her as a girlfriend, and that there's no other person in the world you'd rather be with. (and if you have to lie to say this, you're not really in love.)
* Tell her she's important to you, that she's special to you, and that she's beautiful on a REGULAR BASIS.
* Write poems to her because poems tend to show how a person really feels about something and if she sees you wrote a poem to her, then she will see your feelings about her and she will love the way you talk about her.
Warnings * Treating a woman well is one thing. Sacrificing your self-respect and dignity is another. Maintain a sense of self and your own values. If you communicate your feelings about your own self-respect and dignity. Someone who respects himself can be all the more attractive.
* Don't exaggerate on compliments and go out of your way to try to be with her all the time, or she will think you are a phony. Also don't neglect her too often or she may run into someone else who doesn't. A woman needs to feel wanted.
* Men get hung up on the fact engagement rings cost so much, remember this - its a symbol of your love, it is something she will wear for the rest of her life, it is the most important piece of jewelry she will ever receive and wear proudly, she will want to brag to her friends about it!! I'm not saying you have to spend $20,000 on a diamond ring - but get the scoop from her friends, every woman dreams about her engagement ring and has talked about it with her friends!
* Remember that all women are different. Never, ever say things like, "I bought you flowers. You're supposed to like that. You're a woman!" or "You better like what I bought you. I paid a lot of money for it."
* Don't make promises and not keep them. You may end up losing her.
* When she is upset, legitimately care.
2009年7月10日 18:39h0lla
kathrene nic
18, Cavite City, 菲律賓
hi
2009年5月14日 14:49I WISH FOR YOU...
мαяｿα
29, Dar-es-salaam, 坦尚尼亞
Visions of beauty I wish for you, and fairies to make it right
Angels to remain by your side to protect you throughout the night.
Giggles of delight I wish for you to brighten up your days
So many smiles awaiting you, they will chase the blues away.
Lots of love I wish for you, these things to you I send
HAVE AN AWSOME DAY!!
thanks for dropping by my page & for the lovely comment
2009年5月15日 4:18Re: I WISH FOR YOU...
maheeb
27, 白沙瓦, 巴基斯坦
The One Who Feeds My Soul
In the depths of my mind, I come to find
That there is one who feeds my soul.
Whether far or near, she is always here,
And she's the one who makes me whole.
In a thousand dreams, it always seems
That her beauty speeds my way
Past valleys and peeks as my spirit seeks
To create in each new day.
With this passion and drive, I live, I thrive!
And all because she is there.
For her touch and her love, I rise above,
Seek to better myself in her care.
best regards
In the depths of my mind, I come to find
That there is one who feeds my soul.
Whether far or near, she is always here,
And she's the one who makes me whole.
In a thousand dreams, it always seems
That her beauty speeds my way
Past valleys and peeks as my spirit seeks
To create in each new day.
With this passion and drive, I live, I thrive!
And all because she is there.
For her touch and her love, I rise above,
Seek to better myself in her care.
best regards
2009年5月14日 22:38when we will be asked where we spent our time????
Muslim
24, 巴基斯坦
A woman and a man are involved in a car accident; it's a bad one. Both of their
cars are totally demolished but amazingly neither of them are hurt.
After they crawl out of their cars, the woman says, "So you're a man,
That's interesting. I'm a woman. Wow, just look at our cars! There's nothing
left, but we're unhurt. This must be a sign from God that we should meet and
be friends and live together in peace for the rest of our days".
Flattered, the man replied, "Oh yes, I agree with you completely!
"This must be a sign from God!"
The woman continued, "and look at this, here's another miracle. My car is
completely demolished but this bottle of wine didn't break. Surely God wants
us to drink this wine and celebrate our good fortune."
Then she hands the bottle to the man. The man nods his head in agreement,
opens it and drinks half the bottle and then hands it back to the woman.
The woman takes the bottle and immediately puts the cap back on, and hands
it back to the man.
The man asks, "Aren't you having any?"
The woman replies, "No. I think I'll just wait for the police . . .
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In a small town, a person decided to open up his Bar business, which was right opposite to a Temple. The Temple & its congregation started a campaign to block the Bar from opening with petitions and prayed daily against his business.
Work progressed. However, when it was almost complete and was about to open a few days later, a strong lightning struck the Bar and it was burnt to the ground.
The temple folks were rather smug in their outlook after that, till the Bar owner sued the Temple authorities on the grounds that the Temple through its congregation and prayers was ultimately responsible for the demise of his bar shop, either through direct or indirect actions or means.
In its reply to the court, the temple vehemently denied all responsibility or any connection that their prayers were reasons to the bar shop's demise. As the case made its way into court, the judge looked over the paperwork at the hearing and commented: "I don't know how I'm going to decide this case, but it appears from the paperwork, we have a bar owner who believes in the power of prayer and we have an entire temple and its devotees that doesn't."
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Broz/Sisters, plz start reading Quran with translation and understanding as this is the most readable book (but without understanding) the face of the earth.
Lets enjoy our lives being good believers.
Think Differently
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Police wala (Baitay say): Tumhara result aya hay aur tum teen subjects main fail hu. Aj say tumhara khailna, TV daikhna and Bahir jana band.
Baita (sargoshi kartay huway): Chorain G (Aankh Mar K) - yah 50 rupay rakhain aur silsala yahin khatam karain.
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Muzik ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Three Ayat which which shows the intent against Muzik:
1) Among the people, there are those who uphold baseless Hadith, and thus divert others from the path of GOD without knowledge, and take it in vain. These have incurred a shameful retribution.(Sura 31: Luqman (Luqman)/ayat-6)
EXPLANATION:
"Lah wal hadith" is the focused word in this ayat.
Syedna Abdullah Bin Masood (R.A) said about this ayat "By God, it means sisgning (Muzik)"
Syedna Abdullah Bin Abbas (R.A) said about this ayat "This is singing and the stuff related to muzik"
And same point of view is from Hazrat Saeed bin yassar, Saeed Bin Jubair, Akarma and Qatada (R.A)
(Refrence pages from tafseer ibne Kaseer are attached)
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2) Are you insisting on your ways(Playing/singing)? (Sura 53: The Stars (Al-Najm)/ayat 61)
Explanation:
The word "Samidoon" in this ayat means singing (from Yamani Arabic dictionary). This ayat is very intersting as before this ayat ALLAH (S.W.T) telling us about the Day of judgement and our behaviourz after listening these ayats.
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3) "You may entice them with your voice, and mobilize all your forces and all your men against them, and share in their money and children, and promise them. Anything the devil promises is no more than an illusion (Sura 17: The Children of Israel (Bani Israel)/ayat 64)
Explanantion:
This is the wonderful ayat. This is ayat which scene out the conversation b/t ALLAH (S.W.T) and Satan. And here ALLAH is mentioning that satan can attack through his voice (singing/bad poetry/abusing/ use of bad language etc).So, we Muslims ALhamdolillah considerz Muzik + singing bad poetry as one of the voice od Satan.
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A Sardarji and an American are seated next to each other on a flight from Los Angeles to New York. The American asks if he would like to play a fun game.
The Sardarji, tired, just wants to take a nap, so he politely declines and rolls over to the window to catch a few winks.
The American persists and explains that the game is easy and a lot of fun. He says, "I ask you a question, and if you don't know the answer, you pay me five dollars, and vice versa."
Again, he declines and tries to get some sleep.
The American, now agitated, says, "Okay, if you don't know the answer, you pay me $5,and if I don't know the answer, I will pay you $500."
This catches the Sardarji's attention and, figuring there will be no end to this torment, agrees to the game.
The American asks the first question: "What's the distance from the earth to the moon?"
The Sardarji doesn't say a word, reaches into his wallet,pulls out a $5.00 bill, and hands it to the American.
"Okay," says the American, "your turn".
He asks, "What goes up a hill with three legs and comes down with four legs?"
The American, puzzled, takes out his laptop computer & searches all his preferences........no answer. He taps into the air phone with his modem and searches the Internet and the Library of Congress... no answer.
Frustrated, he sends e-mails to all his friends and coworkers but to no avail.
After an hour, he wakes the Sardarji and hands him $500.
The Sardarji thanks him and turns back to get some more sleep.
The American, who is more than a little miffed, stirs the Sardarji and asks, "Well, what's the answer?"
Without a word, the Sardarji reaches into his purse,hands the american $5,and goes back to sleep.
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Asalamualikum Everybody,
This time sahi ahadiths are there:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
Once Syedna Abdullah Bin Omar (R.A) was on the way with some other person. They heard the voice of flute by shepherd. He insert his fingers in the ears, changed the path and asked the companion:
"Are you still listning him"?
He Said: Yes............ & They keep on walking.
Finally the companion said: Now i can not listen him.
Then Syedna Ibne Omar (R.A) put his hands down and said:
"I myself observed Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) that wheen he heard the voice of flute - He (S.A.W) did the same".
(Sunan Abi Dawood - Book of Adab (Babul karahiya tul Ghana Wal Zumar)
EXPLANATION:
This is quite simple that Holy Prophet heard only the voice of Flute and how he responded. I dont know how one can say that singing (satanic peotry) with a lot of instruments is halal....
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Syedna Abdur Rahman Bin Aouf (R.A) narrated that Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said:
"Surely I am been prohibited from two voices of foolishness, adultry & profligacy (Fisq O Fajoor): On having some Blessing (happiness) - the voice of flute and on some trouble - weeping/crying in a loude voice.
(Tirmidhi - Kitbaul Janaiz (Babul Ma ja a Fi rukhsa Fil Baka a Alal Mayat)
Explanation:
Now how we behaves on marriages, on having some good news and on the time of Death........In this Hadith "weeping with a loud vioce on some trouble is a voice of foolishness and the singing/Muzik is a voice of adultry and profligacy.
This is the reason that Companions (Sahaba) considered muzik "FIrst step towards Zina (Adultry).
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Ibne Omar (R.A) said that on the time of the death of Syedna Ibrahim (R.A)(son of prophet Muhammad (S.A.W)),eyes of prophet were flowing. I said:
"Ya rasool ALLAH - you forbade us but you (yourself) is weeping"????
Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said:
"I dont block you to weep but i forbade you from two foolish and profligatic voices:Satanic fluets & Adultriotic acts in the time of Blessing (Happiness) and weeping/crying with satanic voices in time of trouble"
(Nasbur Raaya - Hadith number 36 (84/4))
EXPLANATION:
THis hadith is again same - more or less with the same theme as of Hadith number - 2.
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Somebody from Aslaf (sahaba/tabaeen) asked from his Students that what you people will do if Satan will attack you?????????
One of the student replied: Offcourse we will fight with him and try to defeat him.
Sulf asked him: Do you think - you will succeed?????
He said: I am not sure but i will try.
Sulf said: Even if you will defeat him but you will still get some injuries from this fight (mean kuch na kuch gunahoon main mubtala hu hi jao gay shaitan k hamloon say).
Student: So what i can do then????????
Sulf: Ok, if you are passing through some street and you see that there is dog and owner of the dog is with him and you feel that the dog is want to attack you - will you fight with the dog.
Offcourse no but you should have to ask the owner of the dog to control his dog. Similarly, when you see that the satan is going to attack you - Think about ALLAH (The owner of everything-The Lord of the universe) and ask him for help. InshALLAH you will be safe and will be able to carry own your journey. (A para from TILBEES IBLEES by Alama Abul Faraj Ibne Joozi)
So, this is Submission to ALLAH. Rather to waste time in fighting with satan (devil) - Ask ALLAH for help.
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A Guy WAS chatting with a female - Online chat.
Background both are s/w engineers by the way and both work for real big MNC's
Hero: Hey...GM (Good Morning)... How's u doing today?
Female: VGM...Day is going good and it got better having found u on chat
Hero: wow...am honoured, u know what, my day starts only when I find you on
Chat
Female: Yep...me too feel the same...Brb (be right back)'ll get some Coffee.
Hero: OK(Hero waits impatiently. Meanwhile, his manager comes to his seat.)
Manager: Hey, I need some help from you
Hero: [**** This guy always comes at wrong time] Yeah tell me
Manager: Could u write a program for me which generates nth prime number,
Given value of n. Would you give this by today evening?
Hero: I would do that, but I think it's quite hard, is it ok with you,if I
Give it by tomorrow evening.
Manager: Yeah, that would be fine. Thank you [Leaves the place]
(Our hero sighs and stares at his monitor waiting impatiently for Female to
Arrive. All of a sudden smiles on his face. Over to chat window...)
Female: Hey, am back
Hero: cool, you know what my manager does, She's kinda..... keeps
asking stupid Things, tries to give me stupid work
Female: Yeah, it's the same everywhere. Real sick ppl these managers are!!
Hero: Yep, u rite!!
Female: Hey, can u do me a favor
Hero: *smiles* sure, why not.
Female: Hey, I want you to write me a program to print nth prime Number,
given N. Would you give that to me by tomorrow evening? Plzzz. You know it's
real Urgent for me to work this out
Hero: hey, that's a one-hour's work. Sure check Urmail in an hour from now.
ok?
Female: THIS IS WHAT I ASKED U WHEN I CAME TO YOUR WORK PLACE. NOW YOU KNOW
WHO I AM!! AND ONE MORE POINT.... YOUR 1 HOUR TIME STARTS NOW!!
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Broz/Sistrz:
Lets use our time positively
THINK DIFFERENTLY
cars are totally demolished but amazingly neither of them are hurt.
After they crawl out of their cars, the woman says, "So you're a man,
That's interesting. I'm a woman. Wow, just look at our cars! There's nothing
left, but we're unhurt. This must be a sign from God that we should meet and
be friends and live together in peace for the rest of our days".
Flattered, the man replied, "Oh yes, I agree with you completely!
"This must be a sign from God!"
The woman continued, "and look at this, here's another miracle. My car is
completely demolished but this bottle of wine didn't break. Surely God wants
us to drink this wine and celebrate our good fortune."
Then she hands the bottle to the man. The man nods his head in agreement,
opens it and drinks half the bottle and then hands it back to the woman.
The woman takes the bottle and immediately puts the cap back on, and hands
it back to the man.
The man asks, "Aren't you having any?"
The woman replies, "No. I think I'll just wait for the police . . .
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In a small town, a person decided to open up his Bar business, which was right opposite to a Temple. The Temple & its congregation started a campaign to block the Bar from opening with petitions and prayed daily against his business.
Work progressed. However, when it was almost complete and was about to open a few days later, a strong lightning struck the Bar and it was burnt to the ground.
The temple folks were rather smug in their outlook after that, till the Bar owner sued the Temple authorities on the grounds that the Temple through its congregation and prayers was ultimately responsible for the demise of his bar shop, either through direct or indirect actions or means.
In its reply to the court, the temple vehemently denied all responsibility or any connection that their prayers were reasons to the bar shop's demise. As the case made its way into court, the judge looked over the paperwork at the hearing and commented: "I don't know how I'm going to decide this case, but it appears from the paperwork, we have a bar owner who believes in the power of prayer and we have an entire temple and its devotees that doesn't."
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Broz/Sisters, plz start reading Quran with translation and understanding as this is the most readable book (but without understanding) the face of the earth.
Lets enjoy our lives being good believers.
Think Differently
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Police wala (Baitay say): Tumhara result aya hay aur tum teen subjects main fail hu. Aj say tumhara khailna, TV daikhna and Bahir jana band.
Baita (sargoshi kartay huway): Chorain G (Aankh Mar K) - yah 50 rupay rakhain aur silsala yahin khatam karain.
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Muzik ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Three Ayat which which shows the intent against Muzik:
1) Among the people, there are those who uphold baseless Hadith, and thus divert others from the path of GOD without knowledge, and take it in vain. These have incurred a shameful retribution.(Sura 31: Luqman (Luqman)/ayat-6)
EXPLANATION:
"Lah wal hadith" is the focused word in this ayat.
Syedna Abdullah Bin Masood (R.A) said about this ayat "By God, it means sisgning (Muzik)"
Syedna Abdullah Bin Abbas (R.A) said about this ayat "This is singing and the stuff related to muzik"
And same point of view is from Hazrat Saeed bin yassar, Saeed Bin Jubair, Akarma and Qatada (R.A)
(Refrence pages from tafseer ibne Kaseer are attached)
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2) Are you insisting on your ways(Playing/singing)? (Sura 53: The Stars (Al-Najm)/ayat 61)
Explanation:
The word "Samidoon" in this ayat means singing (from Yamani Arabic dictionary). This ayat is very intersting as before this ayat ALLAH (S.W.T) telling us about the Day of judgement and our behaviourz after listening these ayats.
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3) "You may entice them with your voice, and mobilize all your forces and all your men against them, and share in their money and children, and promise them. Anything the devil promises is no more than an illusion (Sura 17: The Children of Israel (Bani Israel)/ayat 64)
Explanantion:
This is the wonderful ayat. This is ayat which scene out the conversation b/t ALLAH (S.W.T) and Satan. And here ALLAH is mentioning that satan can attack through his voice (singing/bad poetry/abusing/ use of bad language etc).So, we Muslims ALhamdolillah considerz Muzik + singing bad poetry as one of the voice od Satan.
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A Sardarji and an American are seated next to each other on a flight from Los Angeles to New York. The American asks if he would like to play a fun game.
The Sardarji, tired, just wants to take a nap, so he politely declines and rolls over to the window to catch a few winks.
The American persists and explains that the game is easy and a lot of fun. He says, "I ask you a question, and if you don't know the answer, you pay me five dollars, and vice versa."
Again, he declines and tries to get some sleep.
The American, now agitated, says, "Okay, if you don't know the answer, you pay me $5,and if I don't know the answer, I will pay you $500."
This catches the Sardarji's attention and, figuring there will be no end to this torment, agrees to the game.
The American asks the first question: "What's the distance from the earth to the moon?"
The Sardarji doesn't say a word, reaches into his wallet,pulls out a $5.00 bill, and hands it to the American.
"Okay," says the American, "your turn".
He asks, "What goes up a hill with three legs and comes down with four legs?"
The American, puzzled, takes out his laptop computer & searches all his preferences........no answer. He taps into the air phone with his modem and searches the Internet and the Library of Congress... no answer.
Frustrated, he sends e-mails to all his friends and coworkers but to no avail.
After an hour, he wakes the Sardarji and hands him $500.
The Sardarji thanks him and turns back to get some more sleep.
The American, who is more than a little miffed, stirs the Sardarji and asks, "Well, what's the answer?"
Without a word, the Sardarji reaches into his purse,hands the american $5,and goes back to sleep.
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Asalamualikum Everybody,
This time sahi ahadiths are there:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
Once Syedna Abdullah Bin Omar (R.A) was on the way with some other person. They heard the voice of flute by shepherd. He insert his fingers in the ears, changed the path and asked the companion:
"Are you still listning him"?
He Said: Yes............ & They keep on walking.
Finally the companion said: Now i can not listen him.
Then Syedna Ibne Omar (R.A) put his hands down and said:
"I myself observed Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) that wheen he heard the voice of flute - He (S.A.W) did the same".
(Sunan Abi Dawood - Book of Adab (Babul karahiya tul Ghana Wal Zumar)
EXPLANATION:
This is quite simple that Holy Prophet heard only the voice of Flute and how he responded. I dont know how one can say that singing (satanic peotry) with a lot of instruments is halal....
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Syedna Abdur Rahman Bin Aouf (R.A) narrated that Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said:
"Surely I am been prohibited from two voices of foolishness, adultry & profligacy (Fisq O Fajoor): On having some Blessing (happiness) - the voice of flute and on some trouble - weeping/crying in a loude voice.
(Tirmidhi - Kitbaul Janaiz (Babul Ma ja a Fi rukhsa Fil Baka a Alal Mayat)
Explanation:
Now how we behaves on marriages, on having some good news and on the time of Death........In this Hadith "weeping with a loud vioce on some trouble is a voice of foolishness and the singing/Muzik is a voice of adultry and profligacy.
This is the reason that Companions (Sahaba) considered muzik "FIrst step towards Zina (Adultry).
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Ibne Omar (R.A) said that on the time of the death of Syedna Ibrahim (R.A)(son of prophet Muhammad (S.A.W)),eyes of prophet were flowing. I said:
"Ya rasool ALLAH - you forbade us but you (yourself) is weeping"????
Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said:
"I dont block you to weep but i forbade you from two foolish and profligatic voices:Satanic fluets & Adultriotic acts in the time of Blessing (Happiness) and weeping/crying with satanic voices in time of trouble"
(Nasbur Raaya - Hadith number 36 (84/4))
EXPLANATION:
THis hadith is again same - more or less with the same theme as of Hadith number - 2.
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Somebody from Aslaf (sahaba/tabaeen) asked from his Students that what you people will do if Satan will attack you?????????
One of the student replied: Offcourse we will fight with him and try to defeat him.
Sulf asked him: Do you think - you will succeed?????
He said: I am not sure but i will try.
Sulf said: Even if you will defeat him but you will still get some injuries from this fight (mean kuch na kuch gunahoon main mubtala hu hi jao gay shaitan k hamloon say).
Student: So what i can do then????????
Sulf: Ok, if you are passing through some street and you see that there is dog and owner of the dog is with him and you feel that the dog is want to attack you - will you fight with the dog.
Offcourse no but you should have to ask the owner of the dog to control his dog. Similarly, when you see that the satan is going to attack you - Think about ALLAH (The owner of everything-The Lord of the universe) and ask him for help. InshALLAH you will be safe and will be able to carry own your journey. (A para from TILBEES IBLEES by Alama Abul Faraj Ibne Joozi)
So, this is Submission to ALLAH. Rather to waste time in fighting with satan (devil) - Ask ALLAH for help.
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A Guy WAS chatting with a female - Online chat.
Background both are s/w engineers by the way and both work for real big MNC's
Hero: Hey...GM (Good Morning)... How's u doing today?
Female: VGM...Day is going good and it got better having found u on chat
Hero: wow...am honoured, u know what, my day starts only when I find you on
Chat
Female: Yep...me too feel the same...Brb (be right back)'ll get some Coffee.
Hero: OK(Hero waits impatiently. Meanwhile, his manager comes to his seat.)
Manager: Hey, I need some help from you
Hero: [**** This guy always comes at wrong time] Yeah tell me
Manager: Could u write a program for me which generates nth prime number,
Given value of n. Would you give this by today evening?
Hero: I would do that, but I think it's quite hard, is it ok with you,if I
Give it by tomorrow evening.
Manager: Yeah, that would be fine. Thank you [Leaves the place]
(Our hero sighs and stares at his monitor waiting impatiently for Female to
Arrive. All of a sudden smiles on his face. Over to chat window...)
Female: Hey, am back
Hero: cool, you know what my manager does, She's kinda..... keeps
asking stupid Things, tries to give me stupid work
Female: Yeah, it's the same everywhere. Real sick ppl these managers are!!
Hero: Yep, u rite!!
Female: Hey, can u do me a favor
Hero: *smiles* sure, why not.
Female: Hey, I want you to write me a program to print nth prime Number,
given N. Would you give that to me by tomorrow evening? Plzzz. You know it's
real Urgent for me to work this out
Hero: hey, that's a one-hour's work. Sure check Urmail in an hour from now.
ok?
Female: THIS IS WHAT I ASKED U WHEN I CAME TO YOUR WORK PLACE. NOW YOU KNOW
WHO I AM!! AND ONE MORE POINT.... YOUR 1 HOUR TIME STARTS NOW!!
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Broz/Sistrz:
Lets use our time positively
THINK DIFFERENTLY
2009年8月6日 11:39AOA