2009年6月22日 下午4點36分31秒How to be successful husband???

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Prophet Mohamed - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Prophet Mohamed- had nickname for his wife, ones that she loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt her feelings.

3. Dont treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Dont treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Prophet Mohamed used when he would see something inappropriate from his wife.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Prophet Mohamed would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Dont let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You dont have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Dont belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Prophet Mohamed set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Prophet Mohamed would race his wife Aisha in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Prophet Mohamed: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best!

2009年5月12日 下午3點11分24秒sooo nice story with moral lesson

Once a boy went to a shop with his mother. The shop keeper looked at the small cute child and showed him a bottle with sweets and said 'Dear Child..u can take the sweets... But the child didnt take. The shop keeper was surprised.. such a small child he is and why is he not taking the sweets from the bottle.

Again he said take the sweets.... Now the mother also heard that and said.. take the sweets dear.. Yet he didnt take... The shopkeeper seeing the child not taking the sweets... he himself took the sweets and gave to the child. The child was happy to get two hands full of sweets.

While returning home the Mother asked the child... Why didnt you take the sweets, when the shop keeper told you to take?.. Can you guess the response: Child replies... Mom! my hands are very small and if i take the sweets i can only take few.. but now you see when uncle gave with his big hands.... how many more sweets i got!

Moral: When we take we may get little but when God gives... HE gives us more beyond our expectations... more than what we can hold..!!

2009年1月2日 下午5點26分58秒conversation with a tear...

Conversation with tear

One day I was sitting alone and sad, I do not know why. One tear comes from my eyes and start talking to me

Tear: what is wrong with you? What happen?

Me : what make you come from my eyes Tear: the heat of your heart

Me : and what make the heat of my heart is so high in this way?

Tear: your sins and bad deeds.

Me : are my sins affect on my heart in this way!!!

Tear: yes. Whenever u do sin or bad deed it affect badly on the heat of your heart.

Me : yes you are right , I feel sad, worry and uncomforting. Is that coz of my sins?

Tear : yes, sin makes u ominous and sinister.. so declare your repentance and return to Allah. You will feel better.

2008年12月29日 下午2點10分15秒People of the world ..... where are you???

 

Why we see innocence people killed in front of us and we just watch and keep silent

What kind of world we live in now?? Why we kill each other without any reason

 

Gaza is bleeding and suffer … but no one reply … no one do something for it

Not only Gaza which suffer from wars and cruelty … there are many other places all over the world face the same crisis.

Many innocence people (young guys, girls, women, men, old women and men and even kids) die everyday without doing any crime.

 

Why we do not want to realize that We are all brothers and sisters although we have different languages, different colors, different countries and different religions ...
Do you know why???
Simply because we live on the same earth under the same sky ... so this earth is our big home .. we should love each other and help each other to live in peace and love

 

I am sure that all people of the world want to live in Peace and Love … and all what happen around us is because of our corrupt leaders and government..

But let us be positive and screw on their faces and say " Stop Fighting , Stop Wars, We need Peace"

 

People of the world even if we live in peace in our homes, we should share others who live in war and damage

 

Who do not care about others' suffering; do not deserve to be human being.

 

 

Plz try to imagine if you are in the place of those people what you will do , what u will feel , how much you will suffer when you see the closest people to your heart cut into small pieces on the street? How much you will suffer when you see your little kid bleeding and you do not find hospital to care him?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMewHKpVi2g

 

2008年11月22日 下午5點40分02秒How could you find the real love in your life???

Never search for love, just give it .. love your God, your family, your friends, and love all people that you know them and those you do not know them ...if u do that from your deep heart you will find the right person who loves you soo much and share all your happiness and sorrows ... that person will come to your life as a reward from God for the love in your heart to all people