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lionofdesert6çš„ä¸»é http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:13 EST Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:13 EST Zorpia.com How to be successful husband??? http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1912750 1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Prophet Mohamed - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells. 2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Prophet Mohamed- had nickname for his wife, ones that she loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt her feelings. 3. Dont treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Dont treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that. 4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Prophet Mohamed used when he would see something inappropriate from his wife. 5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Prophet Mohamed would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting. 6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Dont let that be; thank her! 7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You dont have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life. 8. Dont belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Prophet Mohamed set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel. 9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Prophet Mohamed would race his wife Aisha in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that? 10. Always remember the words of Prophet Mohamed: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best! Romance & Relationships http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1912750 Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:36 EST sooo nice story with moral lesson http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1903845 Once a boy went to a shop with his mother. The shop keeper looked at the small cute child and showed him a bottle with sweets and said 'Dear Child..u can take the sweets... But the child didnt take. The shop keeper was surprised.. such a small child he is and why is he not taking the sweets from the bottle. Again he said take the sweets.... Now the mother also heard that and said.. take the sweets dear.. Yet he didnt take... The shopkeeper seeing the child not taking the sweets... he himself took the sweets and gave to the child. The child was happy to get two hands full of sweets. While returning home the Mother asked the child... Why didnt you take the sweets, when the shop keeper told you to take?.. Can you guess the response: Child replies... Mom! my hands are very small and if i take the sweets i can only take few.. but now you see when uncle gave with his big hands.... how many more sweets i got! Moral: When we take we may get little but when God gives... HE gives us more beyond our expectations... more than what we can hold..!! Live http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1903845 Tue, 12 May 2009 10:11 EST conversation with a tear... http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1869490 Conversation with tear One day I was sitting alone and sad, I do not know why. One tear comes from my eyes and start talking to me Tear: what is wrong with you? What happen? Me : what make you come from my eyes Tear: the heat of your heart Me : and what make the heat of my heart is so high in this way? Tear: your sins and bad deeds. Me : are my sins affect on my heart in this way!!! Tear: yes. Whenever u do sin or bad deed it affect badly on the heat of your heart. Me : yes you are right , I feel sad, worry and uncomforting. Is that coz of my sins? Tear : yes, sin makes u ominous and sinister.. so declare your repentance and return to Allah. You will feel better. Religion & Ethics http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1869490 Fri, 02 Jan 2009 13:26 EST People of the world ..... where are you??? http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1868119   Why we see innocence people killed in front of us and we just watch and keep silent What kind of world we live in now?? Why we kill each other without any reason   Gaza is bleeding and suffer â€¦ but no one reply â€¦ no one do something for it Not only Gaza which suffer from wars and cruelty â€¦ there are many other places all over the world face the same crisis. Many innocence people (young guys, girls, women, men, old women and men and even kids) die everyday without doing any crime.   Why we do not want to realize that We are all brothers and sisters although we have different languages, different colors, different countries and different religions ... Do you know why??? Simply because we live on the same earth under the same sky ... so this earth is our big home .. we should love each other and help each other to live in peace and love   I am sure that all people of the world want to live in Peace and Love â€¦ and all what happen around us is because of our corrupt leaders and government.. But let us be positive and screw on their faces and say " Stop Fighting , Stop Wars, We need Peace"   People of the world even if we live in peace in our homes, we should share others who live in war and damage   Who do not care about others' suffering; do not deserve to be human being.     Plz try to imagine if you are in the place of those people what you will do , what u will feel , how much you will suffer when you see the closest people to your heart cut into small pieces on the street? How much you will suffer when you see your little kid bleeding and you do not find hospital to care him? <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMewHKpVi2g">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMewHKpVi2g</a>   Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1868119 Mon, 29 Dec 2008 10:10 EST How could you find the real love in your life??? http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1857711 Never search for love, just give it .. love your God, your family, your friends, and love all people that you know them and those you do not know them ...if u do that from your deep heart you will find the right person who loves you soo much and share all your happiness and sorrows ... that person will come to your life as a reward from God for the love in your heart to all people Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1857711 Sat, 22 Nov 2008 13:40 EST life journey http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1845643 When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life closing to your Allah ,, spread peace and love around you ,,  keep doing good deeds ,,, and help others as much as you can. so that when you die you are the one who is smiling and everyone aroud you is crying.. Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1845643 Wed, 15 Oct 2008 12:47 EST Be carefull and Exploite your life http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1844765 Take advantage of five things before others occur. your youth before you grow old; your health before you become sick, your wealth before you become poor, your leisure before you become busy, and your life before you die... Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1844765 Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:09 EST Avoide the crime of Adultry http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1844465  Please listen to me carefully. I will talk about two things. First of all, sex is not a game. It is an intense and sacred relationship. Unfortunately, a group of girls and guys nowadays-a small one- takes the matter easy. The prophet asks one of the youth if he accepts something like that happen to his mother, sister, aunt or daughter. He wants the youth to visualize the image, and to consider the girl he wants to commit adultery with as his mother or sister. I am addressing men now. Imagine that while you are committing adultery with a girl, someone is doing the same to a girl that belongs to your family at the same moment. This is very important, people: SEX is not a game. This idea must be planted in our children's hearts and minds. Allah says about marriage what can be translated as; "And they have taken from you a solemn compact? (TMQ 4:21)." He calls marriage a "solemn compact". This word only appears in the Qur'an three times: when He assigned prophecy to the prophets and messengers, when He ordered the Israeli people to construct the earth, and when He talks about marriage. Allah links adultery to disbelieving in Him, and killing because adultery violates the whole universe; it is a great deadly sin, and it is not a game. The penalty of adultery is so painful and terrific in hell. The prophet says about the fire of this life that it is 1/70 of the hellfire! Can you imagine how will the hellfire be? The prophet prayed with people and told them that Allah is jealous about his worshippers (males or females) to commit adultery. He wants to say that adultery is a sign that the Day of Judgment is about to come because it spreads corruption among mankind. The prophet also says that Allah removes oneâ€™s faith from his heart when one commits adultery. When you take off your clothes, you are taking off your faith and religion too because you are destroying the basis of the earth. You are precious, girls in Islam, why you are degrading yourselves The only legal way to fulfill your sexual appetite is marriage. If you are not going to be married at the moment, you should try to calm it down through different ways such as: not watching licentious sites or scenes, and shut your eyes to any thing that will awake such appetite. The prophet says that whoever shuts his eyes to anything that will awake his sexual appetites by his will, Allah will reward him by making him chose any one he wishes from the wide-eyed huris in the afterlife. He also says that whoever can afford marriage shall marry, and whoever cannot, he shall fast. Besides, you should busy yourselves by playing sports, and work in charity. The second point is that molestation is a kind of adultery in Islam. It is now spreading in the clubs, universities, streets, and even in schools. Unfortunately, it is considered as a kind of joking, but actually it is so insulting. Listen to this story, a delegation came to Madina to approve its loyalty to Allah and His prophet. Among this delegation was a young man. While he was walking at night, he saw a woman, and he tugged her as a kind of molestation. The matter was known. On the next day, the delegation went after the Fajr prayer to the prophet, and each one approved his loyalty. The prophet was so happy and shook hands with them one by one till he came to the young man. The prophet asked him if he was the man who tugged the woman last night. The man answered that he is. The prophet then told him that he cannot accept his approval. The young man begged him to accept his approval promising that he will never do it again. As a result, he accepted him. The prophet also says that being hit by a piece of iron on one's head is easier for man than committing adultery. Another man went to the prophet and said to him that he has kissed a woman. The prophet then turned his face away from him and left him alone. Then, Jebril descended and conveyed to the prophet this ayah which can be translated as, "And keep up the prayer at the two extremities of the daytime and in the early reaches of the night. Surely the fair deeds will put away the odious deeds. That is a Reminding to the mindful. (TMQ 11:114)." Let us now return to Allah asking his forgiveness. Let anyone of you who has committed adultery or molestation returns to Allah promises Him that he will never do it again. May Allah help you all, and bless you. Religion & Ethics http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1844465 Sat, 11 Oct 2008 09:42 EST who is the strong man??? http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1844183 "The strong man is not the one who can use the force of physical  strength, but the one who controls his anger"   Prophet Mohamed Books http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1844183 Fri, 10 Oct 2008 12:32 EST How to have pure and kind heart????? http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1843824 Try to pass your mornings and evenings in a state where your heart is free from all ill feelings, jealousy and hatred foreveryone... ( Prophet Mohamed) Religion & Ethics http://hk.zorpia.com/lionofdesert6/journal/1843824 Thu, 09 Oct 2008 09:23 EST