Long distance relationship

This subject has been overly discussed on here already, but I will answer anyways.

For some it can work, but 90% of the time it will never work. If you never meet the one you are talking to , then it is completely useless.

Some people have had success with long distance relationships, but they are the ones who chat every day, or who call each other every day on the phone and has actually met each other.

For Headcutter --> Thx for ur answer. Though u know that this subject has been discussed. I haven't check other subject on forum. Because I'm still new in zorpia.

Thx anyway...

^_^

no worries and welcome to zorpia...it was a subject worn to death before.

I know a friend who went through a long distance relationship, and she went to meet him in Egypt. They are now married after knowing each other over 1 year.

Which only proves what I say, unless you talk on the phone or chat every day and actually meet this person, long distance will never work.

Yup.....OK ^_^

Hi widita, it can work. It worked with me and my GF.Just have a look at my page.

biasanya sih gak berlangsung lama, terkecuali dah punya anak.. dan itu kadang juga gak jaminan... jadi balik lagi ke dalam diri masing2...

Maksudnya "terkecuali ud punya anak" gmn?
uhmm.....bener sih emang...ga jaminan...
aahhhhh...jd bingung sy. sudah lahh.....
Just go with the flow ajah...
What will be will be... :D

hahahaha.... harusnya "MAIN HATI" dan "SALING PERCAYA" mungkin itu kuncinya kali... tapi hari gini... semuanya bawaannya CURIGA MULU....ya gak??

"Main Hati" "Saling Percaya" uhm....kayaknya udah deh...
Mungkin dosisnya kurang x yah?

Takut terlalu berlebihan....abisnya dianya jg gitu sihh....
diperhatiin salah.....ga diperhatiin....sy yang kepikiran.
Alhasil karena jauh...ujung ujungnya memang agak curiga sih... Yah...oke lah...bukan agak curiga.....tapi rasa percaya saya jd berkurang perlahan-lahan....seiring dengan hilangnya komunikasi..... SO SAD :(

@ Widita :- its Work..if you Sincere & your Partner also...if Both Love in Real...so the Distence Nothing...But we need Spirit of Love...No Cheat...so then its Ok Else no need to try Meet her/him...

damn de long distance....its not easy,if possible,dont do it....

It's been working for us. I'm at his house right now.... for the second time.

proof # 2, she has seen him.:)

I'm looking at him as I'm writing this... :P

way cool KW..:)

...I wondered why there was bags, bags, bags;)

Ah, that's because I was packing :D

i've done it before, and it works till we were cheat on each other

i don't believe in water

I'm unhappy and my man only lives in another city that's 30 minutes away from me.

Hi mizzpulchrit,

U feel unhappy bec ur man lives in another city. So do I. huhuhu :(
If u needs 30 mnts to go to ur man.....But Me....I need 2 hours flight to other city (other island too).

Hixhixhix :(
How to made a good communication now??
If he never contact me. :(
I'm so deeply in a huge confused. :(
Helpp.....hixhixhix

halo widita, klo bwt temenan sih ga masalah!
tp klo bwt seriusan, mndingan enggak deh! soalny pasti bnyk masalah LOL :D

Hi Deazy...kayaknya kamu bener deh....
Memang susah sih...skrg hubungan aku sm co aku aj jd susah... hixhixhix So sad....

Lama" komunikasinya jd susah...luar kota pula...
Even I have met him...hixhixhix :(

Thx for ur comment anyway :D

urwelcome, :)
dun b sad, sum day u'll get da best :)

you need to be very clear on what you want, what your partner wants, and what you're prepared to do about the relationship. How serious do you want to take it is the most important question.

Next thing that has to be there aside from lots and lots of communication, is trust. You need to be able to trust, and talk a lot. Worked out for me for a good while, and one of the best women I've met so far, I met here =)

good luck with the descision making thingy ^_^

Hi Tank....Really I did trust to him. And I try to communicate to him every single day. But....Whats happened now is....He didn't contact me. huaaaaaa....so saadddd... :(

Uhm...Actually when the communication is good, its worked JUST for 2-3 months (for me and him). And u know what??? He invites me to join in zorpia. But He's not really active in zorpia. And....I'm interesting in zorpia because I can make a discussion here. hehehe :p

Yeah...at least I got many new friends here. hehehe :p

so it's been 2-3 months and right now you're just not sure what's up with him?
if he's not active in zorpia, does this mean he's not active in terms with communicating with you if even very little?

final point being, do you wanna stick with him or had he given himself the bot more or less? :P

Huaaa...I'm so sad..... :(((
I wanna cry...huaaaa...... :((

Though I sincere to him.....It doesn't work at all. I don't know what's happened to him. He don't even call me. I can't call him because his cellphone is not active. Oh my God.....He always told me that he was busy.....

He is truly changed! Hixhixhixhix :(((

He broke my heart......But...why I still miss him a lot??? hixhixhix :(((

cuz you made an attachment to him cuz you two were dating? :P

Don't sweat it too much. happens sometimes ^_^
leave him be, go out, and have some other guy buy you drinks :D

kinda why I think everyone has to be a little bit heartless sometimes.

Yeah.....May be u right tank.
U know....I've talk to him about our relationship. I asked him what did he want? why he didn't care with me? But he just silence n say sorry for being careless. And it was two days ago. and today......I don't know about him.

Hoaaaaahhhhh.......tired of this situation!!!!
Huhhh...what will be happened to me tomorrow??? Will he call me?
Yeah....I try to move forward..... Looking for something that can make myself Happy again....again n again.hahaha :p
I wish I could find my right Man, in a right place, in a right time. yaaahhh yaaahhhh yaahhhh..... ^_^

Thanks Tank.....
Nice to talk to u....
I better go sleep now...its 23.20 in Jakarta. C u Tank....

Take care of yourself, Dita :D

i don't think it works ... at alllll

Uhmmm...Okey...maybe u right....

hehe .. u don't look convinced .. what do u think?

Convinced about what? If it is about long distance relationship....this time....YES. I really don't convince.
Maybe I just broke up with my boyfriend. :(