2007年2月10日 上午2點04分25秒Advice for Couples

I once red a book about the differences between a man and a woman. It was about egoism, thoughts, feelings, emotion, behaviour, marriage, physics, sex etc. I will share some that still remain in my memory.

It was said that more than 50% of marriages ended up in separation. Small deals could be the trigger. Maybe it’s common. But this book told me how to restrain the small deal to be a big deal.

Man and woman were made differently. And their differences still tail them wherever they go and whatever they do, even when they’re married. Man with their ego, logic and unsensitiveness while woman with their emotion, feelings and sensitiveness.

There were some instances. Woman enjoys talking but man will talk only if he thinks he needs it. But if one of you is talking, the other one had better not to interrupt. Man hates if he’s interrupted. But a man that has never interrupted his woman, even just for giving his opinion, is said to be a good listener. Your woman will think that you’re a remarkable man. But if she asks for a solution, a question such “Do you want me to hear you as a man or a woman?” will help.

If a man thinks he has to talk, he’ll do it straight forwardly. He doesn’t do bullshit. On the contrary, woman never says anything literary. She hopes his man will understand what she feels and thinks. But unfortunately man’s brain isn’t programmed to understand all those signs. You men should be more sensitive about this. Beware if your woman looks upset but her mouth says, “I’m okay.” Cause it’s not completely true. She needs your attention.

Woman is able to do 2 things altogether while man isn’t. So women, if you see your man is working on his desk or watching football on TV you’d better not start a conversation. Cause he won’t hear you. It doesn’t mean that he has no concern about you, but because he can only focus on 1 thing. And maybe you will hear these words, “Can you get me soda?” or “Hey, where’s the popcorn?” Don’t you worry about that. But offering him coffee or something will make him happy though.

Man and woman have different thoughts as well. Sometimes it causes an argument. But again, it’s just a small deal. Man thinks with his sense while woman with her emotion and feeling. When this happens, try to ‘switch side’. Man, try to think like your woman and woman, try to think like your man. You two will understand why your partner thinks that way.

Those are just some little parts that are common in your relationship. You’ll find more. But the keys are: patience, understanding, cold mind, give in each other and more communication. I’m sure you’ll get to know your partner better. And I hope this will save your relationship.

Happy (advance) Valentine, everyone!

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