2007年9月25日 下午6點02分56秒Dance Like No One's Watching

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.

The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now.  If not now, when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.  "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one...

So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

Work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching.

 

2007年9月24日 上午8點49分34秒Math Trick (*_*)

Here is a math trick so unbelievable that it will
stump you.
Personally I would like to know who came up with this.
It is pretty
amazing...

1. Grab a calculator. (you won't be able to do this
one in your head)
2. Key in the first three digits of your land line
telephone number
(NOT the area code)
(For 8 digit Tel Nos. - key in the first four digits
of your phone
number)
3. Multiply by 80
4. Add 1
5. Multiply by 250
6. Add the last 4 digits of your phone number
7. Add the last 4 digits of your phone number again.
8. Subtract 250
9. Divide number by 2

Do you recognize the answer?

GoodLuck____________GoodLuckG
GoodLuckGoodLu_______GoodLuckGoodLuck
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoo___GoodLuckGoodLuckGoo
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuck_______Good
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuck_________Good
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGood_______Good
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuck______G
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGood__Goo
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuc_G
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckG
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckG
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuc
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodL
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGo
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodL
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuc
GoodLuckGoodLuckGoodLuckG
GoodLuckGoodLuckGood
GoodLuckGoodL
GoodLuckG
    GoodLu
       Good

 

♥ ♡ Tschessa ♥ ♡ ♬

2007年9月19日 下午5點49分53秒More Than U Know

 

I'd like to tell you
how much I love you
and I hope you know that I do...
I wish that the words I speak
so gently to you could be
heard by your heart
with the same meanings
and in the soft feelings of love
that they carry from deep within me
For more than you know...

I love so many things about you
More than just the way you hold me
and the warmth you give;
I enjoy sharing life with you.
I enjoy the way we balance each other out,
how we share the good times
and support each other through the tears
through whatever life brings
with courage and with love
through the years.
More than you know...
and more than I can ever say,

More than you know...
and more than I can ever say,
I feel a wonderful thankfulness
in my heart...just for you.
And I want you to remember,
though my thoughts don't always convey
and my feelings don't always show,
I love you and I always will...
more than you know.

 

 

 

 

 

 

2007年9月19日 下午5點29分04秒You're My Inspirations

You inspire me.
You bring out the best in me.
You show me a side of myself
I would never see on my own.

You make me feel proud of who I am,
happy about where I am going
and beautiful from the inside out.

You help me believe in myself...
encouraging me to do more,
share more,love more, and
be more.

You bring sunshine
to days that are cloudy,
You bring rainbows
to days that are grey.

You seem to know me
better than I know myself
You lift my spirit with your gentle smile
You calm my soul with your tender touch

You are light, and sweetness.....
a safe harbor from the storms of life
You are my today, and my tomorrow,
My hopes and my dreams

Without you,
my life would not be the same,
You are my inspiration.
And for that,
for all that you are
And all that you do......
I Thank You!

2007年9月10日 上午8點39分15秒Just 3 Words

 

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words.

When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, depends to an  old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop and nurture every relationship:

 Let me help.
Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

 

I understand you.
People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.

 I respect you.
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal.

 

 I miss you.
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse or a friend in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you." This can apply to any relationship.

 

Maybe you're right.
This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say, "maybe you're right", is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it, when you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the other person.

 

Please forgive me.
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles, and failures. A man should never be shamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

 

I thank you.
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

 

 Count on me.
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."

 

I'll be there.
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

 Go for it.
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

 I love you.
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.

 

GOD BLESS YOU!
(These are 3 words too, right?)