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Lov3lyN3SSçš„ä¸»é http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS Sun, 20 Dec 2009 05:12 EST Sun, 20 Dec 2009 05:12 EST Zorpia.com How to grow old & be happy doing sooo... http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1841983 <img alt="I have Been Waiting for This" src="http://www.trulylovable.com/media/1304-i-have-been-waiting-for-this.gif" /> Lot of retired people with lot of money living perhaps with their spouse, or living in a nursing or care facility. They seem to have everything that they worked for all their lives, yet they seem very empty and sad.Whether they were bedridden or had no other people about them at all, but there are many things one could do in life that perhaps they havenâ€™t done. Perhaps they, too, might be able to start thinking this way, too. Steps First of all is oneâ€™s outlook on life. If circumstances get a person down, there is no way he or she can feel happy and alive. No matter how bad things get to be, there is probably some redeeming quality in what is happening. Secondly, though it may be said too many times these days,that an older person needs to keep active and healthy. Thirdly, eat as much as you need to to feel good.Donâ€™t overeat.One must be careful not to gain too much weight, but be sure you enjoy what you eat, and eat healthy foods. Healthy foods are delicious, when added to oneâ€™s diet regularly. Fourth, look good every day. Wear nice clothes, or as nice as you can afford. People treat you well if you wear things that are becoming and look nice and clean. Comb your hair and put on makeup if you are a woman. Take a bath every day and keep yourself clean and sparkling. If you are in pain, take care of whatever ails you. If your leg hurts, find out why and take herbs or do physical therapy which will restore it to full use. See a doctor when you must, but donâ€™t overdo the medical dependence. Read and talk to others about what they have done to relieve their aches and pains. Exercising regularly is very good for keeping aching muscles from spoiling your life. Tips Some people have a problem with genetic ailments. Perhaps cancer is prevalent among family members. Perhaps cataracts or heart problems. In this case, one must take care to check on this particular weakness periodically and make sure it does not happen to you. Actually, the threat of an ailment can spur one on to do more to stay healthy. If you know that exercise is good for heart problems, you will exercise more. This will also be good for other problems that may plague you. If you are bored, find something to work on. Get outside the house and help someone else. If you find your activities limited, find things that might be possible within your limits. Reading or listening to music at concerts or other places is good fun. The trick is to apply yourself seriously to your chosen recreation. Remember what you wanted to do when you grew up. Did you do it? If not, do it now. Warnings Be careful not to fall into a â€œwaitingâ€ trap, where you feel like you are waiting on the world to save you. It wonâ€™t happen. You are the only one who can do anything about your situation. If you act like it is the end of the world, it may be. But if you act like you are alive, you will attract others and life will be more worth living. If you donâ€™t exercise, eat well or take care of yourself, you will become older fast. This is like giving up. You are still alive if you are reading this and you can do something about your own situation. So get out there and do something! Live it up! go dancing, have pets and paint pictures. There are a lot of things one can do. <a href="http://www.trulylovable.com/get/love-avtars/happy-in-love.htm"><img alt="Happy in Love " src="http://www.trulylovable.com/media/1292-t-happy-in-love.gif" /></a> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1841983 Fri, 03 Oct 2008 14:22 EST What is LOVE ? http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1746047   Kind of interesting but each one of us has our own definition of love. Message: For all the people who say "I love you" when you have no clue... what exactly love is !!! Something to ponder upon... Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest? -It isn't love, it's LIKE. You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?? -It isn't love, it's LUST. Are you proud, and eager to show them off?? -It isn't love, it's LUCK. Do you want them because you know they're there?? -It isn't love, it's LONELINESS. Are you there because it's what everyone wants?? -It isn't love, it'S LOYALTY. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?? -It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?? -It isn't love, it's PITY. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?? -It isn't love, it's INFATUATION. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?? -It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP. Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?? -It isn't love, it's a LIE. Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?? -It isn't love, it's CHARITY. Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?? -Then it's LOVE. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?? -Then it's LOVE. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?? -Then it's LOVE. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?? -Then it's LOVE. Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?? -Then it's LOVE. Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?? -Then it's LOVE. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?? -Then it's LOVE. Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others as well.     Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1746047 Sun, 11 Nov 2007 06:55 EST Ask ME 4 A Star http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1743692   <img src="http://www.weddingsonawhim.com/admin/images/scrapbook/IMG_2069crp.jpg" border="1" /> Ask me for a star And I will give you the whole skyâ€¦! Ask me for a moment And I will give you my whole lifeâ€¦! Ask me for a smile on my lips And I will give it with my loving kissâ€¦! Ask me for a place in my heart And I will give you my whole heartâ€¦! Ask me to walk with you for a while And I will walk with you all of my life...! Ask me for being with you tonight And I will spend all of my days and nights with youâ€¦! Ask me for a whole life to live with you And I will be with you in all of my livesâ€¦! <img src="http://my.opera.com/indian_soil/homes/blog/care_bullet222222222222222222222222222222.gif" /> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1743692 Fri, 02 Nov 2007 16:16 EST Live your Life......wooOoow, WorLD oF WoNDers http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1743690 <img title="http://sentimientos.jubiiblog.com.es/upload/lunasimagenes2jr.gif" alt="http://sentimientos.jubiiblog.com.es/upload/lunasimagenes2jr.gif" src="http://sentimientos.jubiiblog.com.es/upload/lunasimagenes2jr.gif" /> Live your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about his religion. Respect others with their views and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and of service to your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day, when you go over the great divide. <img title="http://sentimientos.jubiiblog.com.es/upload/flordeluz.gif" alt="http://sentimientos.jubiiblog.com.es/upload/flordeluz.gif" src="http://sentimientos.jubiiblog.com.es/upload/flordeluz.gif" /> SwiSSkiSSes      Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1743690 Fri, 02 Nov 2007 15:18 EST The Value of Time http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1740423 <a href="http://images.google.ch/imgres?imgurl=http://www.meaus.com/106-soft-watch-cancer.JPEG&imgrefurl=http://www.meaus.com/106-diagnose-krebs.htm&h=415&w=517&sz=49&hl=de&start=3&tbnid=sDWy5U1DufH3YM:&tbnh=105&tbnw=131&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dwatch%26gbv%3D2%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Dde%26sa%3DG"><img style="BORDER-RIGHT: 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: 1px solid" height="105" src="http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:sDWy5U1DufH3YM:http://www.meaus.com/106-soft-watch-cancer.JPEG" width="131" /></a> Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course! Each of us has such a bank. Its name is TIME. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day. If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no going back. There is no drawing against the "tomorrow". You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success! The clock is running. Make the most of today. To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade. To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a pre-mature baby. To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper. To realize the value of ONE DAY, ask a daily wage laborer with kids to feed. To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet. To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train. To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident. To realize the value of ONE MILLI-SECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics. Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time. And remember that time waits for no one. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present! <img alt="3D Animated" src="http://www.mojduniya.com/images/imageitems/3D-Animated/3d-animated-emoticons-smileys58.gif" /> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1740423 Mon, 22 Oct 2007 14:05 EST Eyes........ http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1739136   <img height="353" src="http://dl4.glitter-graphics.net/pub/229/229074r0sxi4vvdd.gif" width="392" border="0" /> Do you know the relationship between two eyes..? They blink together, they move together, they cry together, they see things together and they sleep together BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER.. that's what friendship is... But when a beautiful girl comes in front, one eye goes blink and the other remains open........................................ Moral of the story : Girls can break even the best of friendships :-)          4 Ur Eye____________4 Ur Eyes       4 Ur Eyes Only_______4 Ur Eyes Only      4 Ur Eyes Only  4 U___4 Ur Eyes Only  4 U    4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  _______4 Ur   4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  _________4 Ur  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur_______4 Ur 4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eye______4 4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes On__4 U 4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only _4 4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only   4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Onl     4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes     4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur       4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes Only       4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur Eyes       4 Ur Eyes Only  4 Ur          4 Ur Eyes Onl          4 Ur Eyes           4 Ur E             4 Ur             4 Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1739136 Thu, 18 Oct 2007 11:52 EST Liver Damage :-( http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1733870 <a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/154/3344/1600/liver.png"><img style="CURSOR: hand" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/154/3344/400/liver.png" border="0" /></a> Good rest and sound sleep is very Important... if u don't sleep well, The toxic in your body will accumulate.. Affecting your health and your mood... The main causes of liver damage are: 1. Sleeping too late and waking up too late are the main cause. 2. Not urinating in the morning. 3. Too much eating. 4. Skipping breakfast. 5. Consuming too much medication. 6. Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring, and artificial sweetener. 7. Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. As much as possible reduce cooking oil use when frying, which includes even the <ispan id="AdBriteInlineAd_best" style="BACKGROUND: url(http://files.adbrite.com/mb/images/green-double-underline-006600.gif) repeat-x 50% bottom; MARGIN-BOTTOM: -2px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 2px; CURSOR: pointer; COLOR: #006600; TEXT-DECORATION: none" display="inline" keyword="best" name="AdBriteInlineAd_best" />best</ispan /> cooking oils like olive oil. Do not consume fried foods when you are tired, except if the body is very fit. 8. Consuming overly done foods also add to the burden of liver. Veggies should be eaten raw or cooked 3-5 parts. Fried veggies should be finished in one sitting, do not store. <div align="left"> We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our body to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to "schedule." </div> <div align="left"> Because: Evening at 9 - 11pm : is the time for eliminating unnecessary/ toxic chemicals (de-toxification) from the antibody system (lymph nodes). This time duration should be spent by relaxing or listening to music. If during this time a housewife is still in an unrelaxed state such as washing the dishes or monitoring children doing their homework, this will have a negative impact on her health. </div> <div align="left"> Evening at 11pm - 1am : The de-toxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state. Early morning 1 - 3am : de-toxification process in the gall, also ideally done in a deep sleep state. </div> <div align="left"> Early morning 3 - 5am : de-toxification in the lungs. Therefore there will sometimes be a severe cough for cough sufferers during this time. Since the de-toxification process had reached the respiratory tract, there is no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process. Morning 5 - 7am : de-toxification in the colon, you should empty your bowel. </div>   Morning 7 - 9am : Absorption of nutrients in the small intestine, you should be having breakfast at this time. Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30am, for those who are sick. Breakfast before 7:30am is very beneficial to those wanting to stay fit. Those who always skip breakfast, they should change their habits, and it is still better to eat breakfast late until 9 -10am rather than no meal at all. Sleeping so late and waking up too late will disrupt the process of removing unnecessary chemicals. Aside from that, midnight to 4am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood. Therefore,have a good sleep and don't sleep late. <img src="http://g-ec2.images-amazon.com/images/I/51TYRnIRouL._AA240_.jpg" /> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1733870 Sat, 06 Oct 2007 03:00 EST The Beauty of Mathematics http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1733865   <img src="http://www.amesa.org.za/AMESA2007/images/index.5.jpg" /> 1 x 8 + 1 = 9 12 x 8 + 2 = 98 123 x 8 + 3 = 987 1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876 12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765 123456 x 8 + 6 = 987654 1234567 x 8 + 7 = 9876543 12345678 x 8 + 8 = 98765432 123456789 x 8 + 9 = 987654321 1 x 9 + 2 = 11 12 x 9 + 3 = 111 123 x 9 + 4 = 1111 1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111 12345 x 9 + 6 = 111111 123456 x 9 + 7 = 1111111 1234567 x 9 + 8 = 11111111 12345678 x 9 + 9 = 111111111 123456789 x 9 +10= 1111111111 9 x 9 + 7 = 88 98 x 9 + 6 = 888 987 x 9 + 5 = 8888 9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888 98765 x 9 + 3 = 888888 987654 x 9 + 2 = 8888888 9876543 x 9 + 1 = 88888888 98765432 x 9 + 0 = 888888888 Brilliant, isn't it? And finally, take a look at this symmetry: 1 x 1 = 1 11 x 11 = 121 111 x 111 = 12321 1111 x 1111 = 1234321 11111 x 11111 = 123454321 111111 x 111111 = 12345654321 1111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321 11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321 111111111 x 111111111=123456789 87654321 <img class="border" src="http://egl.math.umd.edu/gallery/Schottky.gif" /> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1733865 Sat, 06 Oct 2007 02:41 EST Dance Like No One's Watching http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1730601 <img id="fullSizedImage" alt="4ba241c7.gif picture by Misstsch" src="http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa303/Misstsch/4ba241c7.gif?t=1190743046" _extended="true" /> We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now.  If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.  "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one... So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy... Happiness is a journey, not a destination. <img id="fullSizedImage" alt="ca82d81c.gif picture by Misstsch" src="http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa303/Misstsch/ca82d81c.gif?t=1190743361" _extended="true" /> Work like you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one's watching.   Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1730601 Tue, 25 Sep 2007 13:02 EST Math Trick (*_*) http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1730165 <img src="http://www.jiskha.com/images/subjects/mathematics/mathematics_cover.gif" /> Here is a math trick so unbelievable that it will stump you. Personally I would like to know who came up with this. It is pretty amazing... 1. Grab a calculator. (you won't be able to do this one in your head) 2. Key in the first three digits of your land line telephone number (NOT the area code) (For 8 digit Tel Nos. - key in the first four digits of your phone number) 3. Multiply by 80 4. Add 1 5. Multiply by 250 6. Add the last 4 digits of your phone number 7. Add the last 4 digits of your phone number again. 8. Subtract 250 9. Divide number by 2 Do you recognize the answer? 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I wish that the words I speak so gently to you could be heard by your heart with the same meanings and in the soft feelings of love that they carry from deep within me For more than you know... I love so many things about you More than just the way you hold me and the warmth you give; I enjoy sharing life with you. I enjoy the way we balance each other out, how we share the good times and support each other through the tears through whatever life brings with courage and with love through the years. More than you know... and more than I can ever say, More than you know... and more than I can ever say, I feel a wonderful thankfulness in my heart...just for you. And I want you to remember, though my thoughts don't always convey and my feelings don't always show, I love you and I always will... more than you know.   <img height="79" src="http://www.angelfire.com/al3/carinbama2/tendernesswoman.gif" width="56" border="0" />           Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1728718 Wed, 19 Sep 2007 12:49 EST You're My Inspirations http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1728712 <img height="150" src="http://www.angelfire.com/al3/carinbama2/couples2b.jpg" width="200" border="0" /> You inspire me. You bring out the best in me. You show me a side of myself I would never see on my own. You make me feel proud of who I am, happy about where I am going and beautiful from the inside out. You help me believe in myself... encouraging me to do more, share more,love more, and be more. You bring sunshine to days that are cloudy, You bring rainbows to days that are grey. You seem to know me better than I know myself You lift my spirit with your gentle smile You calm my soul with your tender touch You are light, and sweetness..... a safe harbor from the storms of life You are my today, and my tomorrow, My hopes and my dreams Without you, my life would not be the same, You are my inspiration. And for that, for all that you are And all that you do...... I Thank You! Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1728712 Wed, 19 Sep 2007 12:29 EST Just 3 Words http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1725674   <img src="http://dl3.glitter-graphics.net/pub/279/279073dsalz443ng.gif" /> There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, depends to an  old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured. The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop and nurture every relationship:  Let me help. Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.   I understand you. People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.  I respect you. Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal.    I miss you. Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse or a friend in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you." This can apply to any relationship.   Maybe you're right. This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say, "maybe you're right", is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it, when you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the other person.   Please forgive me. Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles, and failures. A man should never be shamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.   I thank you. Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.    Count on me. A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."   I'll be there. If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.  Go for it. We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."  I love you. Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.   GOD BLESS YOU! (These are 3 words too, right?) <img src="http://i91.photobucket.com/albums/k284/sparkletags/realigous/godblessu.gif" /> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1725674 Mon, 10 Sep 2007 03:39 EST Across Computer Lines http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1723728 <img id="fullSizedImage" alt="a584ef25.gif picture by Misstsch" src="http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa303/Misstsch/a584ef25.gif?t=1188854104" _extended="true" /> Somehow in this great big World i found myself to U My friend across computer lines Yes, You ! You try to made me smile with the comments/messages U send my way. U never fail to drop a line almost each and everyday, It's soo comforting to know, when there's something I must share, that U are always there. U have taught and advised and  maybe U learnt a little too.. I'm glad my soul, when reaching out, found U. Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1723728 Mon, 03 Sep 2007 16:21 EST Catch your Heart.... http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1723263     <img id="fullSizedImage" alt="5a399a87.jpg picture by Misstsch" src="http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa303/Misstsch/5a399a87.jpg?t=1188736023" _extended="true" /> There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few that will catch your      HE<img id="fullSizedImage" alt="a90a35a9.gif picture by tynee_ch" src="http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k229/tynee_ch/a90a35a9.gif?t=1188741299" _extended="true" />RT<center>PURSUE THOSE !!</center><center><img id="fullSizedImage" alt="ab3b9341.gif picture by tynee_ch" src="http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k229/tynee_ch/ab3b9341.gif?t=1188741372" _extended="true" /></center> Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Lov3lyN3SS/journal/1723263 Sun, 02 Sep 2007 07:33 EST