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2009年9月1日 上午9點04分27秒Back to work
Back to work after my marriage. But I feel my recent life is not like others who have been in marriage. I just feel that I have not got married yet. :). But I think I will know and learn the marriage life soon!
2009年7月6日 上午1點36分04秒I am going to get married
I am going to get married. Maybe I can not come here quite often in a long time I think. So please forgive me for not replying you in time. But anyone who visit my homepage is always welcome. Here I appreciate those who are interested in chinese culture, espcially chinese ancient culture.
Thank you for visiting my homepage.
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2009年6月17日 上午7點30分22秒Trust and love is not equal to understanding
Just got an email from my best girlfriend, she told me she broke up with her UK boyfriend. I really couldn't believe it, because just one month ago, they were still discussing marriage. They had been together and knowing each other for 3 years, they loved each other so much. She is a good girl and he is a good boy. Even they had met each other's parentes. Why did things have such huge great change overnight?
"I don't know why, I have thought the reason for three days, I think maybe just like others say "culture difference" . We were growing up from different culture background, no matter how we love and trust and understand each other, more or less, to some extent there is some difference between our concepts, our ways of thinking and ways of doing things. This time, I knew it was my fault not to tell him things directly. I wanted to make him happy in my own way, I wanted to give him a surprised which I thought would be more romantic, but seemed things went to a complete opposite direction. He was very angry and said I didn't tell him things honestly. Just this time, the misunderstanding leads to our fatal end! 3 years, we use 3 years to build up our love, but just 3 minutes is enough to have it collapse down to pieces! Trust and love seems to be so fragile in front of culture gap! " my friend wrote in email. I could read the miserable pain in her heart!
I always believe that trust and love can make every misunderstanding to be melted, even there is culture gap. But seems things are not always going smoothly as our expecting. Sometimes, we are looking forward to something with our best wishes, but at the last minute, things always turns out to be disappointed and miserable because of the fatal misunderstanding raised by different ways of thinking and differet ways of doing things! That is really pity and painful!------------
I got a conclusion: Trust and love is not equal to understanding!
2009年6月17日 上午3點10分01秒How to unblock?
Firstly, I have to say sorry to careyes from Puerto Rico, I made a mistake to click the wrong button and blocked him. I didn't mean to do that. But I don't know how to unblock it again. Is anyone kind knowing about it and tell me? thanks in advanced