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Happychina2009çš„ä¸»é http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009 Thu, 17 Dec 2009 08:22 EST Thu, 17 Dec 2009 08:22 EST Zorpia.com Back to work http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1926611 Back to work after my marriage. But I feel my recent life is not like others who have been in marriage. I just feel that I have not got married yet. :). But I think I will know and learn the marriage life soon! Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1926611 Tue, 01 Sep 2009 04:04 EST I am going to get married http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1915395 I am going to get married.  Maybe I can not come here quite often in a long time I think. So please forgive me for not replying you in time.  But anyone who visit my homepage is always welcome. Here I appreciate those who are interested in chinese culture, espcially chinese ancient culture. Thank you for visiting my homepage. Happy Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1915395 Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:36 EST Trust and love is not equal to understanding http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1911596 Just got an email from my best girlfriend, she told me she broke up with her UK boyfriend. I really couldn't believe it, because just one month ago, they were still discussing marriage. They had been together and knowing each other for 3 years, they loved each other so much. She is a good girl and he is a good boy. Even they had met each other's parentes. Why did things have such huge great change overnight?   "I don't know why, I have thought the reason for three days, I think maybe just like others say "culture difference" . We were growing up from different culture background, no matter how we love and trust and understand each other, more or less, to some extent there is some difference between our concepts, our ways of thinking and ways of doing things. This time, I knew it was my fault not to tell him things directly. I wanted to make him happy in my own way, I wanted to give him a surprised which I thought would be more romantic, but seemed things went to a complete opposite direction. He was very angry and said I didn't tell him things honestly. Just this time, the misunderstanding leads to our  fatal end! 3 years, we use 3 years to build up our love, but just 3 minutes is enough to have it collapse down to pieces! Trust and love seems to be  so fragile  in front of culture gap! "  my friend wrote in email. I could read the miserable pain in her heart!   I always believe that trust and love can make every misunderstanding to be melted, even there is culture gap.  But seems things are not always going smoothly as our expecting. Sometimes, we are looking forward to something with our best wishes, but at the last minute,  things always turns out to be disappointed and miserable because of the fatal misunderstanding raised by different ways of thinking and differet ways of doing things! That is really pity and painful!------------ I got a conclusion: Trust and love is not equal to understanding!       Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1911596 Wed, 17 Jun 2009 02:30 EST How to unblock? http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1911550 Firstly, I have to say sorry to careyes from Puerto Rico, I made a mistake to click the wrong button and blocked him. I didn't mean to do that. But I don't know how to unblock it again. Is anyone kind knowing about it and tell me? thanks in advanced Personal http://hk.zorpia.com/Happychina2009/journal/1911550 Tue, 16 Jun 2009 22:10 EST